If you’re desperate for something to work out then do this

Right now if you’re in Struggle Town, you need to read this.?

If you’re in the middle of something that you wish would turn out a different way, and you're so desperately doing EVERYTHING that you can to try to control the end result, then just know this.

You can come at any situation like this with two types of energy. (Yes, you have a choice!)?

The first, I like to call ‘Push & Grind’.?

This is a default for most of us when we're desperate and want things to work out a certain way.?

We're making phone calls, we're crazy texting, we're just trying to push, push, push for this thing to come into fruition in the way that we want it. NOW!?

It can be effective in some situations (used in moderation!), but here’s the thing about this type of energy:?

When you push, it actually REPELS.?

And you know what? All the people who are responsible for you getting the end result that you want. Your patients. Your staff. They can literally SMELL the desperation coming off you.?

It pushes them away.

If you’re desperate to sell treatment plans because profits are down, patients can smell that. And guess what? They don't accept your treatment plan.

The alternative is to ‘Commit & Surrender’.

And that doesn’t mean give up. It means do everything you can within your comfortable limits to make shit happen (without the crazy pushing), and then step back so you ALLOW things to happen organically.?

I know, it’s so hard to do when we’re so invested in the outcome.

To say, “You know what? I've done everything I can, Universe, give me whatever you feel is going to be right for me at this stage”. And just allowing that.

When you stop pushing and CHOOSE to commit and surrender, you create space for transformation to happen.?

And don’t even ask me how this works, but I’ve found that it does, every single time I ALLOW it. Notice I keep emphasising the word ‘ALLOW’ here.

And things may not turn out the way that you wanted, but when you stop trying to swim upstream, you release the pressure, the suffering and the resistance to the natural flow of the waters of life.?

And if you’re thinking “Fern, this sound hippie AF!”, remember that business flows in exactly the same way as life does. Why? Because business was created by human beings.?

We can’t fight nature.

When you get into the mindset that everything has happened for a reason, you get the results that serve the highest purpose for you right now.

So if you came here looking for tips to get more done today so you can push and grind your way to ‘smashing’ your to do list, then I’m going to tell you to do the opposite.

STOP pushing.

Just take a step back and allow things to happen.?

Like that hot person who walks towards you at the bar.?

Are you the person who desperately tries everything you can to get their attention, even if it means following them around all night?

Or do you stand there in all your sexy power and make eye contact, without the expectation that they’ll respond?

Guess who’s most likely going to be hottie’s number? (And maybe more!)

You become a magnet for your success. You attract whatever energy you put out. It’s the same in business and in life.?

So, whatever that thing that you want is, know this:?

Even though you can’t control the outcome, you can control you.?

You always have that choice and it’s so empowering to remember that in times of struggle.

It’s set you on the path to releasing the ‘Push & Grind’ mentality and allowing yourself to receive the results you really are worth.

Love,

Fern

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