YOUR TONGUE IS THE RUDDER OF THE SHIP OF YOUR LIFE
YOUR TONGUE IS THE RUDDER OF THE SHIP OF YOUR LIFE
The conversations that we have with others and the conversations that we have with ourselves are synonymous.?
When my son was two, to try to help him stop biting me I would say, “Gentle, gentle, easy, easy” to relax him.?
Then one day I noticed that I was saying it to myself inside my head. I didn't even know why, but as I tracked back in time I saw that I had been quietly judging myself for something I did, and my semi-conscious response to my self-judgement had become "Gentle, gentle, easy, easy".
What had spontaneously arisen was a new way of relating to myself.?
I started to notice how everything that I do internally in relationship to myself, becomes expressed outwardly towards others, and that the things that I do outwardly show up as expressions in relationship to myself.?
It is all one conversation. There's just talking, whether it is to other or to self.?
How then, can the conversations that you have transform the world that you are living in?
Your tongue is the rudder of the ship of your life. To enter a new world, a new reality, you must speak yourself into it.?
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Who we be is the expression of our inner dialogue. Speaking creates how you orient, how you think, how you move, where you go. Talk to yourself in such a way that brings you into action, doing and being the things that you want.
How beautifully can you speak with yourself?
What words could you speak that will create the feelings in you that move you in the ways that create the things that you want to create?
At my free public talk tomorrow, I will be sharing about how and why the way that we talk is the most consequential conscious contribution to our way of being. I'll share how we can bring more attention to our speaking in a way that doesn't turn us into pedantic obsessives and how we can cultivate more choice in how we speak such that our yearning for beauty and prosperity is burned as good fuel for the kinds of actions that make a difference.
Date:?Tuesday 26th July
Time:?7am Hawaii / 10am Los Angeles / 1pm New York / 6pm London
Click here to register: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0of-mtpjMrGtCO1d4NnWC_M39cU8M-A5rj
Loving you, JPM