Your Time is Limited so don't Waste it Living Someone Else's life!

We all want healthy, luxurious, peaceful, and productive lives, Be that as it may, we don't have any idea where to start, where to begin. Despite having multiple Roadmaps, experiences, guidelines, and professional insights, we are still blank on what to do and when. We are just following others and do not bother to think or access ourselves, whether we are in the right direction or not.

What works for one individual may not work for everybody. There are countless activities, various projects, methodologies, and procedures, and picking the right one for you can be hard.

Let me simplify here, thinking for ourselves is a very hard job, The best statement would be "Evaluating ourselves is the hardest job because every individual is perfect in his/her dictionary. In the first place, I figured out myself - "I'm the best", but it is or isn't. I started a conversation with myself and argued....... Alas! I found myself somewhere good somewhere bad, good means strengths, and bad means weakness so-called opportunities. Don't worry every individual carry a set of strengths and weakness, no one is 100% perfect. The point is How we reflect ourselves in the mirror and That's why every successful journey carries a bunch of failures.

As the late Steve Jobs noted in his speech at a Stanford University graduation commencement:        

"Your time is limited; so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."

Now, the question is

"How can we cultivate the ability to think for yourself?"

1. Develop a self-sense mindset: means to know and evaluate ourselves with integrity, honesty and responsibility.
2. Equipped yourself with knowledge: Create a knowledge shelf by placing the best books, articles, and the brief by professionals.
3. Keep working on Growth Mindset: Be flexible with the possibilities and explore the new horizon. Work on the best possible solutions and plan your hot spot and highlight bright spots.
4. Celebrate your failure: Failure are your friends, they show you the path or new possibilities. They raised the confidence to drive the purpose. Don't create fear of failure but celebrate your failure.

Resign from your fears, anxiety, and insecurities. Act Naturally. Be please with what your identity is, yes, improve your identity, present to print in the mind of others. Individuals who have a more certain perspective on themselves live better, better lives. This article is based on my understanding, experience, sessions, and 1-O-1 with many students, professionals, and seniors. I'd like your valuable contribution in terms of "Comments". Looking forward!

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