Your Success Blueprint- You Can Miss it If You Aren't Paying Attention...

IT’S A CURIOUS THING AND SOMETHING WORTH BEING AWARE OF?….

Sometimes when you get a taste of something good, REALLY GOOD, at first you may want to push it away.

I've been working with people for decades I’ve noticed some distinct human-growth trends.

Some examples:

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Client has massive financial win and then CHANGES STRATEGIES.

Client starts to date a great new mate for a while and it’s going great , then pulls away , starts petty fights. When discussing it, they report they’re doing it “FOR NO GOOD REASON”

Client makes an offer and closes a big contract. It almost feels “TOO EASY”. Instead of rinsing and repeating , and enjoying life, they choose a new offer and approach , something unproven.

Client has huge accomplishment and takes no time to celebrate or acknowledge. There is no pause to “mark” the occasion.?When discussing , they notice what could have been better vs admiring what was incredible.

When there isn't a lot of experience with this new kind of success , winning , abundance and money, it could feel like a fluke and the fear that it may not happen again creeps it.

I think of it in terms of the energy and frequency.

This is the vibe of "waiting for the other shoe to drop”.

Why does this happen?

1. You can be concerned about what others will think.

(Friends , family… Usually those closest - not strangers at all )

2. Fearful that there is too great a cost for more success.

( Less time with family, more responsibility)

3. Worried if they are worth the good fortune they’ve wanted.

(Self-worth and ability to receive)

4. Think it's just too good to be true.

( Lack of trust in self and life)

Old thoughts that may not even really belong to you come creeping in.

These can become self fulfilling prophecies.

Your beliefs are just thoughts you’ve had a lot of practice thinking - that is all.

Which simply means you need a lot of practice thinking new thoughts.

New fresh, healthy , thoughts in your “wake state” that feel good in your mind , heart and body.

Better, up-leveled thinking that enlivens your life.

Fear of success is a real thing and it is sneaky.

It will keep you stuck.

Why is the percentage of people that realize great #success and the joy that really is available so low?

From my assessment, there is alot of focus on the subconscious which is excellent . I do agree.

But the power of being aware and curious about your wake state can change the game.

Ask yourself questions such as:

"How am I feeling right now?"

"How do I want to feel right now?"

"What is the best case scenario here?"

"What specifically is causing me so much concern?".

Continue to explore..

"What is in the way of me feeling the way I want to feel?"

"Is there evidence for the way I am feeling?"

"Could this be fear creeping in?"

Your soul , your inner-being knows the answers to these questions.

Tap into your “right now” state. Your “in-this-moment” state.

Look for the evidence that will keep you in positive momentum after a win and you will find it. It will be undeniable and clear.

This is your success blueprint. You will miss it if you look for problems.

Being aware of your response to winning will help you win more.

And isn't that what you really want, anyway?

xxx

Ilyse

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