Your Strengths and Weaknesses

This started out as feedback I gave a client in the Ego Exercise (where I share their 3 strengths and 3 obstacles that I see with my outside eyes).

Just put your name where the ___ is, and I betcha the advice will stick for you. ?

(Feel free to share with your friends.)

Craig

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Your Strengths

1) ___, You Are Strong

Physically. Emotionally. Socially.

You are not to be messed with.

You have been a champion in many areas of your life.

And now I want you to harness the Power of Your Champion Mindset in every area of your life.

So keep that in mind as we go through the rest of this exercise.

____, you are Stronger Than You Think... everywhere.

(By the way, this is one of my main exercises I'll be teaching at the PerfectLifeRetreat.com event... Taking the Champion Mindset that is in everyone and getting them to apply it across the board to every area of life. Isn't it so funny that we can extra-ordinary things in one area and then be overwhelmed with self-doubt in another area ... an area where others find it so easy to succeed... We silly humans are so interesting!)

2) ___, You Are The Catalyst

You have nurtured and grown so many people. You've been there when people's lives were falling apart, when their businesses and marriages were failing, and when they were ready to quit... and you played a huge role in turning them around.

No one has ever thanked you enough for all that you've done for your friends and family. You are the catalyst for change that so many of us needed in our lives.

So let me be the first. On behalf of everyone, Thank You.

It's because of this caring, big heart virtue that you possess that makes people in your life want to move mountains for you. You are loved.

(Now you just need to let people move those mountains for you! And ask for them to help you! Stop doing it all yourself!)

3 – ____, Your Heart and Generosity Are Amazing

Your heart shines through every time...in good times and in bad. You’re always there for everyone.

Yanik Silver once told me, "You cannot out-give the Universe." Well, if anyone's tried, it's you!

Thank you for being so generous with your time, your energy, your strength, and your love.

The world is lucky to have you.

Alright... I could spend hours talking about your strength, loyalty, commitment, honesty, and generosity... You are a giving machine!

Thank you again and again and again.

Now let's shift gears and look at how to overcome some obstacles... never forgetting your strengths that are going to be so important in this next act of your journey.

You're only getting started!

Obstacles

1) Your Inner Churchmouse Still Reigns When It Should Be You a Lion

___, you've made great strides here. And yes, I understand you are emotionally spent after taking care of everyone else and growing a business at the same time.

But the reason you’ve gotten this far, and the reason you can go so much farther, is because of the Lion inside of you.

____, you are someone not to be messed with... but mostly when it comes to the people around you. You'd do anything to protect them, but you need to do the same for you in every area of your life.

Don't let anyone take you for a pushover. The industry owes you more than ever.

I want you to make at least one big ASK every week.

Preferably more.

Do one that scares you - big time - each week.

Will you do that?

Yes!

2) Be the SuperStar Your Women Need

Listen, people are out there "crying themselves to sleep" because they don’t have your help.

You know it. You’ve heard from them. And yet you're still not pulling the trigger on going all in to be the SuperStar that you can be and that the world needs.

Look at those who motivate & inspire you, and look at how they leave no stone un-turned when it comes to people that he can help.

We all need to follow this lead and step up our game!

We need to do our shows consistently.

We need to lead like a #boss.

So don’t let anything stop you... No “technical issues”, no “time issues”. Nothing. Nothing must stop you.

Take your giving to another level.

Out give everyone else in your industry.

You can.

You must.

You will.

The world needs you more than it needs another IG celebrity.

Your world needs substance.

Your world needs a strong leader who is also growing right along with them.

Be that.

Be the answer.

Own that space.

Create your voice and share it at the highest level possible.

This will improve every area of your life ... and you know it will too because right now you're feeling 10X's more terrified than when you started your business.

And that's why it's the right thing to do.

Fortunately it's also going to be even more fun.

Can't wait to see your show, to see your inner Lion come through.

3) Finding Your Partner for Your 2nd Act

OK, NOTE, THIS MIGHT NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE!

But if does... read on!

____, you are a catch. Now you just gotta go and get back in the ocean so you can be caught!

There are no more excuses.

You are truly free now.

And you deserve to be happy in this area of your life.

You've got everything that an evolved person would want in a partner.

Whatever it is that is blocking you, please address it.

Bedros Keuilian once told me, "Gay Hendricks has a chapter on finding love in Conscious Living – here’s the outline: A) Make a soul-level commitment to attracting a new kind of relationship in your life. B) Decide on 3 absolute Yes’s and 3 absolute No’s for this person. C) Love yourself: The thing that keeps people from forming and keeping great relationships is an unloved part of themselves."

So listen ____, there's a person out there who would love to have a ROCK like you in their life. They dream about waking up to someone like you that puts a smile on their face. They wish for an intelligent person like you to talk to. And like every person, they NEED a wise partner to push him to keep improving himself and becoming the best version of themselves.

Be that person.

Go places that you like to go, by yourself or with friends, and just have fun.

Go to the gym during busy times.

Go to some meet-up groups on topics that interest you.

Go on some group hikes.

Go skiing and hang out in the lodge.

Go speak at some entrepreneur events.

Go ask some friends to set you up with some cool people.

Go out for brunch or tea... it's not as 'serious' as dinner.

Go out with some friends for some Saturday afternoon fun.

There are great people out there!

Because listen, if you can...

? Speak at events

? Coach others to become their best selves

? And build a business

Then you can go on dates. Dates are waaaaaay easier!

So stop stalling.

Don't settle.

And never stop.

At the very least just go and have some fun.

Yes, FUN.

Remember that thing you used to have “back in the day”?

Well, you can have it again now, too!

Adventure awaits you. Go for it.