Is Your Senior Being Bullied?
Charles Butler
Licensed HECM Advisor NMLS# 2262315 ?? | Passionate Nonprofit Leader ?? | Advocate for Community ?? Empowerment and Financial Literacy ??| Experienced Project Manager ??
Is Your Senior Being Bullied?
As more and more seniors live in assisted-living facilities and nursing homes, there is a rising trend of peer-to-peer bullying, which is bullying by other residents or clients. According to social services recent studies show that about 1 in 5 seniors are bullied.
The victims of bullying often feel ignored, intimidated or excluded.
Common bullying behaviors include:
- Social ostracism
- Rumor mongering
- Verbal abuse and threats of violence
- Physical abuse
- Invasion of personal space
- Stealing or damaging personal property
- Sexual abuse
Senior living arrangements may make the individual feel frustrated and out of control. Some of these problems arise from adjusting to living in communal settings. Many victims of bullying are unwilling to report it. They may withdraw and try to avoid confrontation. Others respond by fighting back.
There should be a clear zero tolerance for bullying in any setting. Nursing homes and assisted livings must rely on their staff to help take action when bullying occurs. Staff should strive to create an open and safe place for residents to discuss the problem. They should work with residents to create a Code of Conduct, which defines what behaviors are unacceptable.
Whether it is subtle mistreatment or a physical assault, bullying is unacceptable and cannot be tolerated in any population. Recognizing, understanding, and correcting the problem can provide a safe and happy living situation for your loved one. If you believe your senior is being bullied, know that experienced caregivers can offer protection and support.
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