Your Response Reflects Your Limitation

Your Response Reflects Your Limitation

I think TV is a great teacher! American series, The Good Doctor, demonstrates that how we respond to other people is actually a reflection of --- our limitations, our prejudices, our triggers, our woundedness. Our personal strengths and weaknesses.

Dr Shaun Murphy is autistic. He suffers from this neurological condition that makes it difficult for him to "read" contexts (situations/people etc) People with autism rely on repetition. This makes them particularly good with detail and process. They get agitated when rituals are not followed. They find relationships particularly difficult because... well... people aren't logical, are we? Dr Shaun Murphy has savant syndrome. This means he operates at genius levels (in this case, medicine). In the movie The Accountant, Ben Afflect plays the genius accountant who is also a mercenary killer!

"How people behave is about them. How we behave is about us." When you understand this, you will see that there is no such thing as blame. No such thing as "I am better than you." When we understand that every time we make a choice, we display our power or lack of it, then we understand our power as co-creators on this planet. No one is better than us. No one is worse. We are all different.

In The Good Doctor, we see how other doctors look down on the young autistic surgeon. We see them stealing credit for his work. They take advantage of his simple-mind, his kindness and they mock him for being "slow" when in fact, he is genius (and genius in THEIR field of medicine!) See how appearances can fool people?

How many times have you (judged / looked down on / mocked / been less than polite to / made someone suffer / played mind games with) someone you believed was less (powerful / wealthy / capable) than you?

This TV show teaches me to keep my ego in check. What comes from us is ours. Yep. This means our behaviour, and our responses. It'll be on our scoreboard as our karma. Be very clear about this. There is no escaping. The Universe is a zero-sum game. We will always get what we deserve.





要查看或添加评论,请登录

Tessie Lim的更多文章

  • Malaysia Day 2020

    Malaysia Day 2020

    I grew up in the minority. I am Eurasian living in Malaysia.

    1 条评论
  • It's to real-ize... we crave each other

    It's to real-ize... we crave each other

    1. There is no such thing as a God with a religion.

  • Fake News!

    Fake News!

    The image showing an upward spike is fake news. The markets have shaved off about 30% within the last three weeks of…

    1 条评论
  • The story I'm telling myself...

    The story I'm telling myself...

    COACHING the upper echelons in corporations for more than a decade now, I've observed a thread of commonality running…

    8 条评论
  • A Discovery of... our own "magick"

    A Discovery of... our own "magick"

    A series of incidences happen to an Oxford professor Diana Bishop, where she is forced to acknowledge her superpowers…

  • Mental Health <--> Get Real Coaching

    Mental Health <--> Get Real Coaching

    The message in the poster above isn’t as simple as it sounds. There’s a huge amount of work in “making mental health a…

  • Malaysia Baru where are you?

    Malaysia Baru where are you?

    The euphoria was palpable on May 10. People were noticeably happy; relieved for sure.

    2 条评论
  • The future's so bright I need my sun shades!

    The future's so bright I need my sun shades!

    In Kuala Lumpur today, July 2, the rest of the cabinet were sworn in by the King. We have the oldest Head of Govt (in…

    3 条评论
  • Personal Power. I'm about that.

    Personal Power. I'm about that.

    I discover just how much I have in my most challenging of times. When my mom passed.

  • Tess on Women & Power

    Tess on Women & Power

    Why focus on growing women power? Protecting our rights, allowing us a voice. Why now? Unless the drive arises from…

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了