Your problem may not be people—it may be you!

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Hear me out!

At the Women of Inspiration Awards, I had the privilege of meeting many incredible women who challenge this mindset every day. I connected closely with a few who left a lasting impression on me, and I’m excited to build new friendships with them.

On Day 1 of the gala event, I got into a conversation with two of these remarkable ladies. One turned to me and asked, “Sophia, what will you wear for tomorrow’s event?” I shared that I had two gowns, one of which I liked and planned to wear. The other lady chimed in, mentioning that she also had a beautiful dress she loved but was unsure if it would be appropriate—would we be overdressed?

We laughed and shared our concerns about standing out too much or not fitting in. After some discussion and more laughter, we decided to wear the dresses we loved. Why? Because we felt good in them, and that was all that mattered.

This simple moment reminded me of a powerful truth: how often do we hold ourselves back, worrying about what others will think? It’s easy to let those thoughts creep in, but real growth comes when we choose what makes us happy, what makes us feel confident, and what aligns with our true selves.

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1. Focus on Your Values: Align your actions with what you truly believe in and value. When you stay true to your principles, the opinions of others hold less power.
2. Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Recognize when self-doubt creeps in and replace it with affirmations or constructive thoughts. Remind yourself of past achievements and strengths.
3. Surround Yourself with Supportive People: Engage with individuals who uplift, inspire, and encourage you to be your authentic self. A strong support system can reinforce your confidence.

Choose what you love, feel comfortable in your own skin, and go after your goals without fear.

Push past the “what will people say?” line of thinking and step into our power—because when we do, we inspire others to do the same.

Food for thought: What bold move would you make today if you weren’t concerned about the opinions of others?

Refuse to settle for Average!

Your LinkedIn bestie,

Sophia

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