Your personal and career growth is more important than your lover

Timing: if you ask me, timing is everything in life.

Do the right things at the right time.

Timing is very important in life. The Value of Time. Older individuals often emphasize how fleeting life can be.

They understand that time is a non-renewable resource and prioritize what truly matters—relationships, health, and meaningful experiences—over trivial pursuits.

With age comes a better understanding of resilience.

Older people have faced various hardships and know that tough times pass. They also tend to have a broader perspective on what is genuinely important, letting go of minor annoyances or grudges.

A small example. As a teenager, I craved to own a motorbike. I did not have the money to buy one nor could I manage to convince my parents to buy one.

I used to always daydream or envy others who had them. Eventually after a few years when. I started working I bought the bike I wanted. But sadly, I had lost the zeal of enjoying bikes.

Likewise, in relationships/friendships always speak from your heart and say what you want to say.

Don't wait for the perfect moment to express. Make the current moment perfect by expressing what you feel because you may never get another opportunity later.

One thing of which I have a much greater understanding now than I had fifty years ago is the speed of time. I’ll never forget a quick exchange between two very old men when I was in my twenties or so.

“How’s it going…ten years go round and you’re still like you’ve always been?” asked the first gentleman.

“No, not anymore…” I forget the rest of the conversation.

What stuck with me was the concept of ten years going around as though it were just another day passing.

As a person for whom ten years ago reached deep into childhood, this was beyond comprehension.

?I grew up hearing my mother talking about things that happened “ten years ago,” as though ten years were the ultimate chunk of time.

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Thank you?….What are some truths that people accept too late ?

Change is always good,

You’ve to work hard to discover how to work smart. You won’t know the best solutions until you’ve made nearly all the mistakes,

Many people look at others and think:

Look at the house he owns. Look at the girl he has. Look at the car he drives. It all seems so valuable because it feels out of reach. But, once you attain it , you realize it’s not truly valuable, it’s just difficult.

And there’s a big difference. What’s truly valuable fulfills you physically, mentally , and spiritually,

Women are much more pragmatic and ruthless when it comes to love and commitment than a man could be ,

Friendship isn’t about grand gestures or constant communication, it’s about being there when it matters,

The comfort zone is safe, but dreams do not grow there,

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The best piece of advice you could give someone about life?

Your personal and career growth is more important than your lover. If you are a failure, nobody will stay with you

Love fades with time and mood because it is a transient feeling.

Only you are responsible for your mistakes. Rather than blaming others, take full responsibility for your actions and avoid repeating again those mistakes.Your problems are gossip for your friends. Your parents are the only people who care. For example, if you lose the job, your friends and relatives will only sympathize, but your parents are the ones who will face the problem and look for solutions.

Be a jack of all trades. Try learning different things and skills.

To be happy, accept and move on. If your partner dumped you or cheated on you, accept it and realize that someone more worthy is meant to be in your life. Pity them.

All people are unique. You may not be good at studies but you may be good at designing.

Focus on your skills and elevate them up to the level of excellence rather than feeling jealous and competing with talented people, which will make you mediocre.

Your comments ……

If you are really talented in a field, just go for it. Don't worry about what your friends and relatives might say.

Breakup with your lover is a blessing. You will only realize it after some years. Breakups change how you perceive and make you mature.

Don’t announce your goals and dreams on a loudspeaker. Once you achieve, the people will get to know.

Sex is a small act. It is overrated and hyped. Having sex doesn’t assure a long-lasting relationship.

Don’t be influenced by cool friends, parties, alcohol, outings, cigarettes. This modernness will waste your time and make you regret.

Nothing is wrong. Nothing is right. There are just consequences.

Your skills and talent will bring you way more success than good looks ever can. Focus on the former rather than wasting time on the latter.

Life is about perspective. Everyone functions as per their own perspective.

Reading and writing are constant development promoters. Invest your time in reading good books, especially non-fiction.

The reason for misery in life is being with negative people. Surround yourself with positive and like-minded people to be happy.

Have fun with others, but make sure you spend the time to improve yourself.

Life starts after no contact. Stop dealing with toxic people.

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