Your Perception Is Your Reality
Grant Herbert
Empowering today's great professional services technicians to become exceptional leaders | Executive Coach | Team Coach | Leadership Trainer and Mentor | Inspirational Keynote Speaker | Mental Health Advocate
Do you have people in your world that see things differently to the way that you do? Let's face it. We all do, and it can create a lot of confusion and conflict. Stick with me in today's episode and I'll show you why this is and what to do to solve it.
All throughout my corporate career, I had issues with self-worth, and I wore a mask and pretended that I was someone that I hadn't yet become. Constantly seeking the approval of others, people saw me as confident and competent, but my internal dialogue and what was going on for me was totally different. I was sometimes argumentative and quite often unteachable. Does this sound familiar? Can you relate to this yourself? Well, Accurate Self-Assessment is the competency of Emotional Intelligence that you need so that you can overcome this problem.
There are three key actions that you need to take so that you can accurately assess your current reality as you need to to move forward. That plan will help you to leverage your current strengths and work on the other areas that are holding you back from getting the results that you want right now.
Number one is identify your blind spots.
Number two is to list your strengths and your weaknesses.
Number three is to ask for feedback, getting help from people who want you to succeed is extremely important.
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Grant Herbert describes himself as an ordinary guy, with an outstanding wife and 5 amazing kids, who has a passion to help people escape the performance trap and regain their authenticity in every area of life. He is an international influencer, sustainable performance coach,?the founder of People Builders and the Institute for Social + Emotional Intelligence Asia Pacific. Visit?www.grantherbert.com?to find out how you can connect.