Your pain is calling you to level up

Your pain is calling you to level up

Sometimes life gives us hard things to face.

What have you been through that has caused you pain and suffering??

Maybe you’re going through it right now.

If that’s you, I want to encourage you today that this pain is for a purpose.

If you’ve experienced trauma, you’ve had to overcome hard things or you’re CURRENTLY in the thick of the mess…

I have an important message for you

You can change your story.?

Your pain is here to invite you to look at your life and choose who you want to become.

You can choose to find the gold that’s buried beneath all the mess.

This is the reason why I’m SO grateful for my messed up life.?

ALL the terrible things that happened made me who I am today.

It made me Erika!

What have you been through?

What are the terrible things that happened to you when you were younger?

It’s about how you look at it

Everything you’ve gone through, everything you’ve endured up until this point has already happened. You can’t change that.?

What you CAN change is how you look at it.

You can look at those painful moments and those terrible experiences and choose to find the good.

What did those experiences teach you?

What did you learn?

What was forged in you?

Find the gift buried beneath the mess.?

There is so much power in your pain

People often wish they could change the past. They get stuck in regret for the bad choices they made and the terrible things that happened to them.

But they don’t realise that those very things they want to erase are the source of their power.?

The pain, the obstacles, the heartache can all be turned into fuel to help you grow into the most fulfilled and whole version of yourself.

Don’t waste your pain. Use it. Allow it to stretch you, strengthen you and push you forward into something beautiful.?

I recently recorded a podcast talking about this topic. Take a listen.




Sybil Gilmore

Feng Shui Specialist

8 个月

I thought I was strong but after leaving my narcissistic parents behind over 6 years ago, i received a letter from my youngest sibling about our middle brother recently diagnosed with cancer. I am having a breakdown now. He was abused like me by them but was not very nice to me. I was in the unfortunate role of scapegoat and never want to intervenevwith them in order to grow. Now i find myself in a panic. He won't be around much longer... i feel so awful i cannot think straight. I messaged my brother who sent the letter then erased it because i have dropped off the face of the earth in order to cope with the magnitude of abuse.

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