Your Obsession with Short-Term Gains Is Holding You Back—Here's How to Fix It

If you're reading this, you’re already playing in the big leagues—CEO, business owner, entrepreneur, director.

You've had wins, and you're constantly pushing for more. But let me ask you this:

Are you playing the long game, or are you still chasing short-term hits?

I get it—quick wins feel great.

They’re easy to measure, they’re fast, and they give you that instant hit of validation.

But if you’re only focused on immediate results, you’re actually holding yourself back from the real game.

The most successful leaders know one thing: the ability to delay gratification is the single greatest success characteristic you can develop.

The people who dominate their industry are the ones willing to be uncomfortable today so they can win big tomorrow.

Why You’re Obsessed with Short-Term Gains

We live in a world where everything is optimized for instant gratification.

Quick likes, fast business hacks, and overnight success stories fill your feed.

It’s easy to think that fast results are the path forward.

But the truth is:

You can get whatever you want in life—just not whenever you want it.

Short-term thinking leads to decisions that feel good right now but cost you big down the road:

• You might push a deal just to get it over the line, but you’re losing long-term trust.
• You could be focusing on a strategy that works for the next quarter, but not the next decade.
• You’re constantly shifting tactics, chasing quick returns, but never building anything that lasts.

This obsession with immediacy?

It’s blinding you to the bigger picture.

The more you chase the quick wins, the more you sabotage your long-term growth.

The Power of Delaying Gratification

Delaying gratification is not about denial.

It’s about making decisions today that benefit you tomorrow.

It’s the ability to do the thing you know will pay off later, even when it’s uncomfortable right now.

Whatever the thing is in front of you that you don’t want to do—whether it’s making that tough hire, investing in long-term systems, or nurturing relationships that won’t pay off immediately—your ability to do it despite the discomfort will separate you from the rest.

"How do you do it?"

I get asked that a lot. "How do you stick with it when you’re not seeing the payoff yet? Do you say something to yourself?"

Here’s the deal: You need to figure out what you want more.

If you’re not doing the thing you need to do, it’s because something else has taken priority—whether you realize it or not. There's something you want more than the thing you say you want. Your actions reveals it.

Maybe it’s comfort.

Maybe it’s validation.

But for the long game to work, you need a bigger reason.

You need a goal that’s massive enough to pull you through the discomfort.

For me, it’s about what I want to achieve.

I know the short-term stuff is just noise if it’s not building toward the bigger vision.

And every time I feel like bailing on the hard stuff, I remind myself: That vision is worth it.

Building Long-Term Relationships

Quick wins don’t just affect your decisions—they affect your relationships.

If you’re only focused on what you can get right now, you’ll find yourself burning through connections and missing out on the real opportunities.

The highest-level players—CEOs, founders, investors—they’re not interested in someone who’s just trying to get something today.

They want to build with people who are in it for the long haul.

You know why?

Because they understand that real value compounds over time.

The secret? You have to give value first—and keep giving.

Real relationships are built through consistent value over time, not through quick exchanges.

You have to delay the gratification of expecting something back and focus on giving.

You might not see the payoff tomorrow, but that goodwill will come back to you tenfold when the time is right.

Strategic Patience in Business Growth

If you’re only focused on making this quarter’s numbers, you’re missing the bigger picture.

Yes, short-term results are necessary...

...but they can’t be your only focus.

• Hire and develop people who can grow with you over the long run.
• Invest in systems that create sustainable results, not just quick bursts of success.
• Build trust with your customers so they stick with you for decades, not just months.

You have to be okay with not seeing the result immediately.

The systems you’re building today won’t bear fruit right away.

But that’s the point.

The leaders who dominate their industries aren’t chasing quarterly wins—they’re playing for the next decade.

How to Master Delaying Gratification

If you want to dominate your industry, you need to be the person who can endure short-term discomfort for long-term gains.

The winners are the ones who are willing to wait.

• Stop chasing trends.
• Stop obsessing over immediate returns.
• Start making decisions that will pay off in the long term.

It’s about strategic patience—acting without needing to see the results right away.

It’s understanding that the best outcomes take time, and being disciplined enough to stay the course.

Your obsession with short-term gains is holding you back.

Success is about delaying gratification and making decisions today that benefit you tomorrow.

• Build long-term relationships by giving value first and not expecting immediate returns.
• Invest in systems and people that will grow with you over the long term.
• Stop chasing quick wins and start playing the game that leads to lasting success.

The leaders who win are the ones who are patient, strategic, and willing to endure short-term discomfort to achieve long-term domination.

So the question is:

What do you want more?

Because if you’re stuck chasing short-term gains, it’s time to rethink your strategy and focus on what really matters.

Be Unshakeable,

Satori Mateu

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