Your mind is a magnet, so decide what to attract

Thoughts which dominate our minds have immense power to attract certain people and events into our life. The type of events which occur with us depends solely on the thoughts which dominate our minds. Someone great has rightly said : “It’s all in the mind.” For example if we talk about positive thinking and a person is optimistic and doesn't let negative thoughts to affect him it will certainly attract people having the same trait and will face events where his optimistic approach will give him an edge above the rest.

Whereas if we take negative thinking on the other hand, a person is a pessimist and lets all his negative thoughts to dominate his mind. Such a person is likely to find himself in situations where he would think of giving up and the idea of giving up will cross his mind only because his mind is dominated by negative thoughts. As "being negative in life will guarantee that you won't succeed”.

Therefore we need to fill your mind with positive thoughts and see the magic of thoughts shaping your life. We attract things everyday. We think about our friend and suddenly he or she call us. Isn't it? We saw a person somewhere and continually thinking about him and after some days he again encountered with us. There are lot of books about the power of attraction and all the author are from different countries and didn't know each other personally but they wrote same thing.

Your conscious mind is but the tip of the iceberg, and largely exists to be a backseat witness to your life. Your consciousness is an endpoint that receives mental imagery, inner vocalization, and feelings from your non-conscious mind. Humans only come to know themselves through experiences by their non-conscious, which is directly attached to your senses.

You may ask someone with OCD problem if they appreciate the unwanted barrage of thoughts spit into their conscious mind from their non-conscious, telling them to wash their hands a thousand times a day. People have next to zero control over their own minds, but most are far too stupid and lazy to be introspective about the true nature of their mind.

At certain points in our lives, we will feel attracted to something we’re not fully aware of, that someone brings to the table. We can’t put our finger on it. Sometimes it’s something we don’t think we’re attracted to, thus leading it to being a mystery to us, but when the rubber meets the road, we, well, actually are attracted to that thing — with them, anyway.

There are for sure some subtle characteristics of person. Like his or her body language, the grace with which he or she carries himself or herself. Expressiveness of the person. Beyond that if you get to hear how the other person talks then you can get attracted to his or her way of talking. So the gracefulness of person is all it takes to get attracted to him or her without knowing them. Above characteristics develop curiosity in our mind about the other person and we try to know more about him or her. If you want others to get attracted towards you, you can develop grace and positive body language. Along with good emotions and expressions.

Attraction, whether physical, emotional or spiritual, is always a projection of our ideal man or woman onto a stranger. It is part of the infatuation that draws us together to investigate whether there is a possibility of a love relationship. Most Attraction is in the mind. We create unconscious ideas of what is attractive to us. We don’t realize this affects our decisions. The attraction we feel are mostly an unconscious response to the unconscious programming we do. The person we feel magnetically attracted to is meeting some of the unconscious programmed requirements we have set. Much of our conscious world is ruled by the underlying unconscious programming. Cheers!