On your marks, get set, E-go!
Pavan Zachariah
Full stack HR certified, Learning and capability development leader, and transformation catalyst.
Did you know that 'Ego' originated in the 19th century, from Latin, meaning 'I'
In the grand circus of our minds, the ego is the ringmaster, the mischievous mastermind orchestrating a spectacular show of selfhood. It's the part of us that takes the spotlight, struts around in a top hat, and declares, "Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Greatest Show: Me!"
Take any relationship for instance, Why is it that in relationships, ego always convinces us that we're always right? Imagine a heated argument where admitting a mistake or being quiet could diffuse the tension. But no, the ego stands firm, arms crossed, insisting on victory. The result? Broken friendships, strained romances, and a growing collection of grudges. The ego, in its quest to be right, often forgets that sometimes, relationships are more important than winning.
Have you ever heard of mirrors being best friends with ego? It's all about appearances, with hours spent perfecting the outward self while the inner self is left unattended. This is where selfies multiply and filters are overused.(lest to say, those who seriously considered 'front cam' as a deciding factor while buying your mobile phone). The ego whispers that we must look perfect, be perfect, and show the world just how flawless we are. Yet beneath the surface, the pressure mounts, creating a brittle facade that can crack under the slightest scrutiny.
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There are times when ego thrives on being in charge, making every decision, and micromanaging every detail. It's the boss that never delegates, the parent who can't let go, the partner who dictates every plan. While the ego might feel powerful here, the result is often burnout and resentment from those who feel stifled. In its quest for control, the ego ironically loses the very grip it sought to maintain.
In Overboardland, the ego is king, but it's a lonely reign. The misadventures remind us that while a healthy ego is necessary for confidence and self-worth, an overblown one leads to isolation and discontent. So next time you feel the ego taking the wheel, steer it back to balance because life's journey is best enjoyed with a little humility and a lot of heart.
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Learning COE Leader - EYGDS. Building transformative leaders through Learning & Skilling
3 个月Very true Pavan Zachariah and very well articulated…
Assistant Director -Talent Development at EY| Leadership Development| Learning solutions|Mentor| Author| Writer| Authentic| Empathic Talks About: Growth Mindset|Biases|Emotional Intelligence|All things Human
3 个月Very well articulated Pavan Zachariah. Loved the title and every word.We are constantly justifying ego and self respect.Ego has to go for the relationships to flourish. This article reminds me of the movie I recently watched, Inside -out 2, loved how emotions are personified and how they control our every thought and action.Thank you for sharing.
HR Professional with a blend of Corporate & Consulting experience
4 个月Nicely put, Zac. I always make it a point to take regular breaks, whether it is for a few minutes, a couple of hours, or even a few days, whenever I feel my ego getting in the way. I try to put my best efforts into understanding the other side of the table with an honest exchange of thoughts and a review of actions. However, when there's a difference in opinions, I let my values guide me, and I do not compromise with the values that define who I am. I have found it mutual and beneficial if not in many cases but in peculiar instances.