Your Lowest Point In Life = Opportunity To Reinvent Yourself
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Your Lowest Point In Life = Opportunity To Reinvent Yourself

I wrote my first CV in the second week of university life when I was doing my undergraduate degree. It was for joining the debate club. I went home that night and looked at the empty A4 screen of the word document for God knows how long. 

Then I started filling out my details. Added my school and college info. And I didn't even reach half the page. So I increased the line-spacing to make it look longer. It still didn't amount to anything.

I was embarrassed. I was feeling sh!t. I didn't know of any big loser than myself with nothing to offer to the world. 

So I promised myself that I would change it for good. And so I did. 

I focused on only one university club instead of 5.

I took 3 tuitions to learn and earn. 

I took an additional job as a debate coach at a school. 

I worked for Transparency International for 2 years to work on national-level projects.

I worked for British American Tobacco Bangladesh for 2 years as one of the coordinators of Battle Of Minds. 

I worked for a voluntary UN youth organization for 4 years.

I traveled to 3 continents and 8 countries without paying a penny. 

I was a Wikipedian

My photography made it to 5 major student exhibitions with a jury award 

I was a contributor at the leading English newspaper-The Daily Star

I did countless hours of community service

I failed to launch a publication with my best friend.

I made countless business cases. 

We organized the second-largest debating tournament in the world. 

I worked for 14-15 hours a day. 

And these are not all!

The result? 

I struggled to keep my CV on one page. So I was the only fresh graduate I knew who had a two-page CV, which too was written conservatively, and with less than point 1 line spacing. 

Had it not been that lowest point in my life, presenting itself quite early on, I probably wouldn't have gotten out of my comfort zone to do something about it. 

Sometimes, being at your lowest point is a great opportunity. This is when we get absolute clarity of what needs to be done. This is when we reinvent ourselves and become a better version than before. 

So, if you feel you're in bad shape and life spun a curveball towards you, don't spin with it; spin through it. Use it as a reverse springboard. Take full advantage of this limiting state to course-correct yourself. Everything else will fall in place. 

Do you have any memories of personal transformation to share? 

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Shadab P.

???? Re/building Bangladesh ????

3 年

Thanks for sharing Salman. I went through a terrible break-up much later in my life, but I turned the years of accumulating negative energy into putting everything into a venture I started in Bangladesh to effectively create jobs and push BD talent in manufacturing up the value chain, whilst promoting the country in a positive light with a view to diversify our export markets. Fast forward to today, we have Tradeshi - an opportunity that helped me create a system that nurtures talent. Looking back retrospectively, years of neglect, pain and suffering pushed me to create something quite the opposite, and I'd like to think I've been successful in that respect. A few words of advice for people going through difficult periods in their lives: (1) Focus on a hobby (i used gsarage band on my mac bookpro to make some music), (2) Get disciplined to set up some rituals (i used to wake up super early and go for a walk around Banani DOHS park after Fajr prayers) and (3) Believe that while things may get worse before they get better, what you're going through is just a test from Allah. That's my two cents :)

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