What really matters in dating

Do you overthink around women that you like?

Are your interactions a mere fact-exchange with no flirt and no sexual tension?

Do you second guess yourself on what "is appropriate" to do and say on dates?

Do you end up together with a woman who's good but not the best choice for you?

Do you resent women at least a little bit for not wanting you?

Please don't feel ashamed if you check on any (or all) of these questions.

Most men out there have some issues with at least one of them.

Also, most men out there believe that the solution to their problem is to earn something external: money, prestige, a cool position, popularity...

Let me tell you: none of these things actually matters.

Well, they do, but they are in the 80% that gives you 20% of the result.

Sure they're nice additions, but not the deciding factor.

For me, these are just ways to swipe the dust under the rug.

The real issue is being avoided.

So what is it that really matters when it comes to women?

Let's go a little back in time.

Do you remember the "cool guys" in high school?

They would just be naturally good with girls, behaving in ways that apparently didn't even make sense but that clearly were effective at getting them the prettiest girls in the classroom.

Meanwhile, if you asked most other guys about their dating lives they would just have "nothing to complain" about it.

Did you notice how the trend keeps existing in all environments?

No matter if it's a high school classroom or the board of directors of a multinational company.

When it comes down to being an attractive man, some guys "just have it", others just don't.

What makes the difference between the first and the second category is one thing only:

Embracing your masculine essence.

BEING YOURSELF UNAPOLOGETICALLY.

Here's what it looks like when you're embracing your masculinity:

You don't need to think about what to say, you just say whatever and women like it.

When you talk to a woman you like, sexual tension arises naturally during the conversation. Even if you speak about the weather.

It doesn't exist on Earth that you end up in a relationship with a woman that is less than optimal.

Sounds interesting?

This is not science fiction, you can get there if you take the right path.

I’m about to say something no one else ever told you:

It is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to put in the work and meet the women that you really want.

There is NO REASON why you should settle for anything less than that.

As a man, you NATURALLY HAVE THE ABILITY TO ATTRACT and keep a partner that resonates with you at a deep level.

THIS ABILITY LIES DORMANT within you, blocked by all sorts of insecurities and conditioning that you accrued since childhood.

Once you learn how to awaken it, you "have it".

That's it.

You don't need anything else.

"oh but I have no time now", "first I'll focus on work then I'll see...", "I'm just trying out that new dating app, who knows..."

This is what most people tell themselves when they think about improving their situation.

Guess what, most people end up not improving their situation and stagnate.

I am here to help you take responsibility for your dating life in a smart way,

so that meeting compatible women with whom you can develop meaningful relationships becomes a natural activity that fits your schedule and ambitions.

Stop compromising with yourself, this is the only life you have, and you are supposed to live it fully.

If you feel it’s time to give yourself permission to have what you want, message me and let’s get to work.