Be Your 100% First
Ayesha J Bibha, CSP
Thought Leader on Mindspeed = Neuroscience of Leadership + EQ Consultant | TEDx & Keynote Speaker | Author | Guiding Women Strategists to Mindspeed Their Business and Life with Ease.
Lisa Nichols says, love others from your saucer, not from your cup.
So I asked, how could I give others from my saucer once the cup is not full yet? What would make my cup to overflowing?
Thinking about many answers, I found one thing common to all answers - start with "self". And that requires 3 core areas:
1. Trust
2. Respect
3. Love
A harmony of trust, respect, and self-love can make you full, whole or 100%. Once you are filled with these three, you are ready to give the extras to others.
Bottom-line, you need to be the 100% first.
Now, what happens when we miss any of these 3 or a right blending of their combination?
The pieces of evidence are very visible:
- You don't feel the courage to do anything new
- You are not consistent or hard working to reach the goal
- You feel a lack of passion or dedication
Result?
The greater inability to give your 100% to others.