You won't get experience without taking some decisions
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
Taking decisions which are natural and in context to having a clear idea of what is that you are trying to achieve? Keep yourself grounded and always take decisions without overthinking. Follow your gut and ask yourself “is this a good decisions” after you have made up a mind about your decision. If you feel good go for it or else contemplate a little more (not overthinking). For more on taking sound decisions visit our super content.
Decision can have a huge impact or cannot have any. This could appear funny and is funny when we are trying to see decisions that are made in our knowledge. We are making decision hundred times a day but not even considering as important to consider as decision. These unaware made decision are working with past condition so is biased for which we have no clue.
That is why role of discipline finds it place and when we use the word discipline, we are not seeing with any ideal state but desire to follow some habits willingly.In case we follow even partially as inherited habit, enjoy or don’t think this habit is by any external force we would one day understand value out of it and that would help us adding many more traits.
This discipline itself can be habit that keeps us alert mentally when minor action or reaction could be known as decision making and easily be executed nicely to not have any negative impact. Errors can happen, that should be never a concern but intent we take decision matters more. When our intent is right and not targeting evil with anybody the impact is less, in face ends us in learning to be more alert next time.
If such state of mind is prepared or is being prepared the impact in life is healthy and enriched with time which is working in maintaining inner harmony by the intent of keeping harmony externally too. Where such awareness is missing and state of mind having no clue about it could be working on decision with expectation of good results and not ready for failure which is not possible.
Decisions being bad could arouse their anger and blame so many others by the nature of such mind can end up winning superficially but create disharmony within and external environment. Such state can damage our physical or mental health unaware, so I say that leads in ignorance spoiling the life time unless some incident changes their outlook.
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Here are some things we should never regret in life. Exercising - the feeling you get after a workout session where you feel healthier and stronger is one of the best feelings you can ever feel. Traveling - learning a new culture, seeing beautiful landmarks, eating delicious food, admiring the beautiful women(or men), what’s not to love?
Wasting time playing your favorite video games - as a gamer, a day spent on just relaxing and playing your favorite video game/s is blissful. Spending time with your pet - whether you are a dog/cat/parrot/fish/any other pet animal lover, you won’t regret spending even just a few minutes a day playing with your beloved pet and talking to them as if they’re your best friend.
Catching up with a family member you get along with or a close friend that you haven’t seen for years - you will be amazed on either how much they’ve changed or how they are almost still the same person as time went by. You still have analogies to compare to, experiences ‘like’ this one that you can then use to make decisions as if you had experience in the thing you’re doing.
Now without any experiential or historical basis - let’s say you’re a clean slate - you can watch others and see what works for them for experiential references, you can of course leverage information sources - the internet, the library, books, movies, etc. I mean. Unless you’re living in a void - there’s a lot of external references someone can leverage until you’ve obtained an adequate experiential history to begin making decisions on your own without reliance on ‘the truth’ as given to you from external sources.
If that makes sense. If you’re operating an a void without access to any kind of information. All you can do is fail forward. Remembering the experiences and then eventually that becomes your experiential history that you can then revise as new informaiton presents itself. And then. Sometimes. When you cant make a decision or don’t know how to move forward. That’s when I break out with these. For real. I have them sitting on my desktop right now… Assign a number to all the known possibilities and simply roll the appropriate die or dice that contain all the possibilities. Cheers!
Retires Scientist G & Scientist In charge MERADO Ludhiana CSIR / CMERI and Ex Commander (Indian Navy)
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