Are you Stuck in the GAME of THORNS?
Sandeep Kochhar
StoryTeller, C Suite Coach & Author. "Failure Ant" that never gives up! 4500 Stories. 11 Million lives impacted. DOTS (Do One Thing Surely).
"Are you Stuck in the GAME of THORNS?"
My coach asked this question to me.
"What is that?" I asked my coach?
He replied:
"THORNS is :?
T: THREE things we are running after: Money, Power & Fame?
H: HOPE we are looking for but we cant find it?
O: We are searching for solutions to our problems OUTSIDE but the answers lie inside?
R: RESULTS we look for but never get. The more we want it the more they run away from us?
N: NEED or Greed, we cant seem to find the difference?
S: SATISFACTION in life, we never seem to get it"
"Yes I am Stuck here, but how does one win this GAME?" I responded
"There is a simple way to win this?GAME" he said
G: Giving selflessly & without expectations is the first step, it is powerful because it moves you to become the creator instantly?
A: Abundance mindset, imagine if you already had it how would you behave, the universe will give it to you instantly. Some people would call it Fake it to make it:)?
M: MIND is powerful, program it, don't let it program you. Don't confuse your mind to be you. Don't let it run your life. Fears & Insecurities come only from our mind, we are not born with them?
E: EFFORT: Move from thinking to doing. Strangely thinking does not solve a problem it only increases it. DOTS (Do One Thing Surely) when you put in effort. Focus on One Thing.
Are you playing the Game of Thorns??
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Where are you stuck??
What is the simplest way to become the best version of yourself??
It is HUSTLE WITHIN for me.?
Every single time I hustle within to put myself in an uncomfortable situation. I take risks to reach a situation which makes me feel stuck. I then take action to get out of it.?
I feel uncomfortable most of the time. This pushes me to change & grow.?
Whenever things start to get comfortable, I dislike it, because I know it will make me complacent.??
Earlier when I used to reach an uncomfortable situation, I used to criticize people & situations, blame everyone, say my luck is bad. I would remain in that situation for months or years.?
When I lost my job many years ago, I blamed my manager, my company, the world. I found many excuses. I remained in that situation for a long time till I hustled within.?
For example, if it has been a few months & you cant find a job it only means the actions you are taking are not working. Maybe you should try different actions. Meet 100 strangers & network, volunteer with start-ups, freelance.?
It is important to reflect on what is happening & why.??
Are you hustling within??
Are you taking risks??
Are you trying different actions??
P.S: I wasted time hustling outside, but we have to hustle inside first?
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2 年Very insightful post, Sandeep Kochhar ...... what an innovative way to express powerful thoughts....
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2 年well articulated Sandeep
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2 年Indepth analysis ????