Are you Sowing? or Reaping?
You just met someone new.
Maybe you even started using my awesome icebreaker question in my previous article.
Now what?
From here, you can go down two pathways (as you might have guessed from the title).
Sadly, most people take the Reaper Approach.
Have you ever experienced any of these behaviors in a conversation? (or maybe have you been the reaper?)
I've had a travelling job for over 12 years now.... and I've literally met 1000s of reapers. Some may actually be great people, they just suck at making true connections with the people they meet.
So.... what does this have to do with professional growth and development?
Great question! Let's get into today's lesson.
LEARN FROM OTHERS EXPERTISE IN NEW CONVERSATIONS
Sure... it may sound like work. That's because maybe most of us say we "care"... but in reality we are actually selfish.
Here's how I actually do this.
Now down the road.... will I get a chance to share all my stories and ideas? Of course... but most of the time its only because now they are genuinly interested in what I do. At that point, I am not the reaper... because we made a real connection.
By always approaching new conversations as a learning experience, I continually improve my own skillsets, my perspectives, and my ability to add value to others. And it actually makes me a fun person to be around. -Dan
Lets get into action.
ACTION TIME:
Thanks again for taking a moment to read through this article! I appreciate your time and focus, and look forward to continuing to provide fresh, actionable content week after week. We as leaders need to inspire growth and learning in the workplace... and many times we need to learn just as much as the people we lead!
Your Friend,
Dan