Are You Sacrificing Your LIFE For Success?
Jonny Hopkinson
I 100% fund & manage 6-figure cash windfall campaigns for Experts, Coaches & Course Creators (& only get paid AFTER money hits their Stripe account.)
Do you believe that there is a place that you just need to get to in order for you to be happy?
OR find yourself saying..
"When I can just get this business to where I want it THEN I will spend more time with my FAMILY."
OR
"If I do all this SACRIFICING now, push through the STRUGGLE and deal with the STRESS then ONE DAY I will finally be able to LIVE how I WANT to.”
Which leaves you SACRIFICING for SUCCESS (Usually in the pursuit of FINANCES)
This is something I dealt with for a long time.
I thought that if I could just X then I’ll be happy.
This is a REALITY for a lot of people I speak to.
I call it chasing the PROVERBIAL DRAGON.
It’s like an ADDICTION that we can’t let go of.
But the EXTERNAL hit’s never last long enough to fill the VOID.
The PURSUIT for self worth & purpose.
And for most ENTREPRENEURS they define self worth by a number which they sacrifice life for.
And people will burn things to the ground to find PURPOSE.
The thing is though.
You KNOW what you should do.
YOU’RE ALREADY WORTHY of EVERYTHING you DESIRE.
It simply comes down to changing how you see the world and BEING the person who makes you happy.
Consider the possibility that you can have everything that you want now.
The HEALTH and BODY that allows your to feel fucking bad ass.
The INTERNAL PEACE and MINDSETS that make you unstoppable.
The KILLER RELATIONSHIPS with your partner, kids, family and friends
AND
The WEALTH & BUSINESS that serves YOU.
This doesn’t mean you can HAVE the exact result overnight.
Everything takes work, but you can be the person who’s PURSUIT is CREATION.
It simply COMES down to CHOOSING that as your NEW NORMAL.
Defining the SPECIFIC & MEASURABLE RESULTS that YOU choose to CREATE.
Then BEING the person who produces those RESULTS.
I’ll also have you consider that the natural law of the universe is expansion.
And since you’re part of the UNIVERSE.
Then your PURPOSE is EXPANSION.
To GIVE, to GROW, to GAIN, to EXPAND in EVERY AREA of LIFE.
In my experience when I started living from the INSIDE OUT.
And living a PURPOSE driven life everything became simple, because I now CHOOSE to do what feels good and you can too.
I’ll ask you to consider that the reason why you constantly think that ONE DAY things will be better.
Is SIMPLY because you can’t even picture what ONE day looks like.
You just know deep inside that LIFE HAS GOT TO BE BETTER than what you’re experiencing now.
I get it.
I was there too.
In fact I sacrificed a hell of a lot on my journey to becoming who I am today…
The hard TRUTH is that the only time that exists is NOW… TODAY… THIS VERY SECOND.
If you’re chasing the SOMEDAY you’ll forget about TODAY and find yourself living in a constant state of STRESS, STRUGGLE and SACRIFICE.
How much longer are you willing to tolerate your own bullshit?
How much longer are you going to prioritise making money and business over your kids/family?
How much longer are you going to carry on fighting an internal battle with yourself?
Somedays feeling on fire and others like you’re worthless...
In my experience YOU will never FINALLY reach a place where EXTERNAL “things” will give you the happiness you desire and deserve.
That was the route I went down, and whilst from the outside it looked like everything was great it was a MASK.
Happiness for me comes down to KNOWING who you are and unapologetically BEING the person you know you are.
J x
I strive to inspire and motivate people of all ages to take action in designing new directions in their journey in life. Be determined to rise above adversity.
7 年I am writing a book for young people on success. To me the best success one can achieve is getting in control of one's emotions, thoughts, and beliefs. Would you like me to send you a short version? I would need you email address, please.
counsellor / DV advocate at Solace Women's Aid
7 年Thank you for sharing, this really spoke to me and gave the clarity I needed. So thank you again
Project manager / Surveyor
7 年Very good post, and some hard facts!