Will you be ready for love when it shows up?
Timing is everything, so we've heard. And I do agree.
When I was recently divorced, I was afraid to become attached because of my past marriage. I was looking for a new life partner, but I wasn't really ready for a new person and the responsibility that goes with a new relationship. I look back now and see I pushed away some promising relationships.
How ready are you to receive someone's attention and affection?
How ready are you to give time to a new relationship?
How ready are you to make changes in your life to accommodate someone else?
How ready are you to accept his/her family and spend time with them?
When I look back at my successful clients that coupled over the last year, I see that they recognized right away that this person as a very good match indeed.
And this happened for these couples within 3 to 6 dates! And each couple quickly progressed to becoming exclusive.
Yes, you read that right... 3 to 6 dates!
You see, my clients did the work on themselves upfront. They had a clear sense of the direction they were heading and who would be a good life partner for them.
They knew their goals and values and they knew what to look for. This knowledge made it easy for them to look for shared goals and values in their prospective partners, as well as, the red flags too.
And they were prepared to make the necessary changes in their life - if need be.
When I met my husband, Alan, I lived in Rockville, MD. He lived in Annandale, VA. It's a 30-minute drive without traffic!
At 41 and 47 we were both motivated to marry and had shared goals. We also shared many of the same values. We seemed like a natural fit.
I had a coach and Alan had his counselor - so we were both doing the necessary work to make ourselves couple ready.
We started dating in late June, spent the 4th of July together and dated a half dozen times. After going on our previously planned summer vacations in August, we both agreed to become exclusive soon after.
Soon after, we traveled to New York to introduce one another to our respective families. And we started planning our future together. By the end of December, we were engaged!
This is how fast relationships can form! And I've seen it time and time again with my clients when they meet that special person.
Even with a Pandemic, my clients figure out how to make it work and still be safe!
I've had over 10 clients form committed relationships in 2020, with several engagements!
Of course, once you become a couple, that's when the real work begins!
As a dating and relationship coach, my mission is to help my clients be prepared for when that special person shows up and to recognize them as being the one.
And now is the time when seriously searching single people are looking for love.
I'm here to show you how and light your path to find true love.
Will you be ready when that special person shows up?
I would love to help you be ready to be part of a couple.
Wishing you a safe and happy holiday season,
Coach Amy
PS: To find out if you're truly ready to meet your true love, take my quiz at www.mtmquiz.com. Afterwards, I'd be happy to discuss your results with you.