ARE YOU PURPOSE DRIVEN OR INTENT DRIVEN?
Chinkee Tan
TV / Soc Med Personality ?? Wealth Coach ?? Top Motivational Speaker ?? Author of 14 Best-Selling Books ?? I teach millions of Filipinos how to become wealthy and debt-free ?? #MrChinkPositive
Do you set goals??
Goals are a good thing.
Staying focused is a good thing.?
But when they get in the way of our original intention, things can become disastrous!
“A goal without the right intentions becomes an obsession without purpose”.
We are so caught up in hitting our targets that sometimes we forget why we set them in the first place.
For example, you might want to become wealthy to help others. But in the process of becoming wealthy, you are forced to cheat and steal. You are no longer helping others but destroying others.
Do you understand what I'm trying to communicate?
Sometimes we are so purpose driven, that we missed our original intent and purpose.
Sometimes we are so focused on hitting our goals that we forget our original intention.
However, there are times that the means we use to achieve our goals can get in the way of the main goal itself.
I also made that big mistake!
WHY DID I START MY OWN BUSINESS?
??TO EARN MONEY?
??TO BE MY BOSS
??TO HAVE MORE TIME WITH FAMILY
But rather than achieving the original intent to have more time with family. My business is taking so much time away from my family. I am spending too much time at my business rather than with my family.
My wife, who was pregnant with our second child and stressed out, was really unhappy. My business has taken me to the provinces so often that I rarely get to see them. It pushed me to make the decision to choose between business or family.?
In 2006, after months of painful consideration, I sold everything and started a new career because it was eating my time away from my family.
I do not regret that decision I made.
Be careful of what kind of person you become as you pursue your goals in life. We should be careful about how much time we spend pursuing our goals. We should be careful about what kind of person we become as we pursue our goals.
We don't want to become fanatics that lose sight of everything else in life. If we're not careful, our goals can become more important than our family. Sometimes we are guilty as parents, since we are so busy in providing the needs of our family.
We spend more time working rather than enjoying time with family. We are so tired from working that we hardly have any energy left to give our children.
“Pa, can you please help me with my assignment?”
“Ma, can you please? play with me?”
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“Yes, I will do it later. Please give me a moment.”
According to my mentor in child training, “For a child, quality time is spelled as quantity time.”
How about you?
Are you still aligned with your original intent??
Have you already lost sight of your original goal, or are you still on track?
The original intent is more important than the pursuit of our goals.
We have to have a bond with other people who we truly value.
Relationships are important—between husbands and wives, parents and children.
When pursuing goals, it is important to consider how your actions will affect the people who we are working for.
It's important to pursue our goals with our family. That way, we'll be more likely to achieve them.
Keep your eyes on both the destination and how you're getting there!
Remember, the people you bring with you on the journey are just as important as the destination.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
What was your original intent when you began?
Are you still focused on your original intentions, or have you gotten side tracked and lost sight of the big picture?
What do you think needs to be changed?
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2 年This is absolutely true! ?Intentions?are connected with what is important inside of us - our hearts, our passion, and our purpose.
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2 年Totally! ??
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2 年This is so true. More often when asked why we want to achieve something, we freeze and scratch our heads.And we are all guilty of doing this at one time (or several times). Thanks for this Chinkee Tan.
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2 年AMEN BROTHER!