Are you a Problem or a solution?
Many a time we see people look very blank or burning with fire or found lost with lots around. When you talk to such people they are 100% ready to get burst out either with anger or with tears or through any other act. Why such things happen in life? Are we so much weak to lead this life with such pathetic condition being so called intelligent human? Who is responsible for such conditions or situations? Is it the people, the situation, the place or our own thoughts or weaknesses?
Let us have a glance at our own life. Many a time we tend to carry all the past happenings, the future unknown factors to live this present life. As all of you know past cannot be changed, future unless it comes you cannot work on it. Then what is left out in our life? It's only the present happenings which is passing through the past , to the future being in present or getting into present.
In such verge of life how one can live the life in peace or in present. I can say Another word for Peace is Present or Being in Now. We tend to get lots of things coming on our way of life when we deal with various aspects of life. "Life" is one. We tend to split it with Professional, Personal, Spiritual etc., etc., and also Past, Present, Future... Cant we see the life as "One" that is "Living Now"? How many would really live in now? without thinking "Oh ! She or he should have been with me now", or This should have become mine or I should have been like this etc., etc., the Comparisons one side and mixing emotions on the other side.
In such case how to focus or become a solution part for this life instead of only list of problems? I have seen many who are "Complain Boxes". They just have complaints about life, people, situation and when you get inot it, you feel it's nothing but self created by mere focusing on negatives or problems or weaknesses.
You can ask , is it possible to be so strong all the time? I would say yes. Today you Trust that you have nothing which cannot be solved or cannot be addressed or cannot be left and you will see enormous progress in your life.
When there is problem , there are only 3 actions you can take with problems or issues. You either Kill it, Avoid it or Live with it. Killing is solving or eliminating, Avoiding is leaving the space or ignoring, Living is ...accepting that this cannot be solved and I have to make my own way to live with it and feel comfortable by accepting it. When you firmly take one decision, you are peaceful and you will be the Ruler of your own mind or life.
People are many a time become failure because as a normal tendency, they focus on Problems more and crib about those instead of focusing on multi solutions. Now on try to focus on various solutions for each problem for easy choice of solution instead of embracing the problems more. Problems are dead ends and solutions are open wide to walk the life easily.
Have a wonderful time being part of solutions instead of becoming part of problems..
Roopika ...
05-04-2018
Licensed Property Casualty Ins Prof
6 年i will, based upon the visual, read thru this someday
Independent Consultant Psychiatrist
6 年The words we invent with infinite meanings and messages.Saying what we mean and meaning what we say is our work in progress.Current seemingly negative balance of creating and supporting more problems than we can solve serves purpose of reminding us of our innate imperfections.Problems are not the dead-ends.Solutions may well be--as we are in a state of perpetual delusion -promoting that we know more than we think we know.Acceptance and Tolerance are words to start chanting ,conversing and collaborating about.Slow down,start slow,go slow.....Tortoises and Hares...
The kangaroo whisperer
6 年Hahahaha
Sales Manager
6 年Very true
Learning and Development
6 年It will be painful to try to correct them as they have their own belief systems and difficult to mend their thoughts and behavior. We can only facilitate them to come out of the mess created by their minds provided they wish to come out n lead a better life.