Are you playing BIG and living the life you want OR are you playing it safe?

Are you playing BIG and living the life you want OR are you playing it safe?

You can either have it all - all the fun, impact and freedom you want or you can play small and be comfortable.

Playing small is almost always the result of fear. The fear of success, failure, loss, or the unknown. Or a combination of some or all of these.

You’re not sure what playing big, having it all, could it look like for you OR what you might lose in the process.?So you stick with what you know and what you have...

BUT, this is something you and me can address head on right now.?You’re responsible for what you want and have.?You’re responsible for leading. For your actions not just your words. For living life on your terms. AND being the person you want to be.?

Far too many people accept average. Or “good enough”. Or “better than most”. Because it's easier and safer. And as a result you end up achieving only a FRACTION of what you're capable of. You end up full of untapped potential. Untapped impact. Unfulfilled meaning

AND full of fear and self doubt.? You're scared of failing. Scared of succeeding. Scared of what everyone else might be thinking or saying.

Bronnie Ware, the author of the international bestselling memoir, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, identified the #1 regret as...

"I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me".

Right now, I want you to ask yourself:

Are you really living the life YOU want?

Are you maxisiming all that you are? And can be?

Are you being who you want to be, doing what you want to be doing?

OR, are you holding back?

Here’s the thing...settling seems like a good idea at the time. You’re doing well. Life is good and you have no real complaints. You live in a nice house in a nice suburb, drive late-model cars, have a well-paid job and a great family - the comfort zone. But you know you want more.

AND you promise yourself you’ll break this glass ceiling soon. That when you achieve X (whatever that is for you - paying off the mortgage, a bonus at work, the next promotion) you’ll start playing bigger, taking more risks, doing what YOU want to do.

But it’s called a comfort zone for a reason.?It’s comfortable. And it’s much easier to stay there than risk losing it all by leaving.?

Here's my challenge to you, if playing it safe isn’t giving you exactly want you want, and you don't want to regret not living life YOUR way

NOW is the time for action!

I’m not saying wipe the slate completely clean and start again (although I’ve seen it work brilliantly in some cases).? What I AM saying is there’s so much more out there - more freedom, fun, happiness, meaning and impact - if, and it’s a BIG if, you’re willing to grab it.

If you're willing to play BIG and go after what it is you truly want, so you don't regret ANYTHING.

This does mean taking risks. It does mean facing your fears, embracing the unknown, and leaving your comfort zone. But the reward is YOU get to do what you want, when you want, how you want and with WHOM you want

And that's worth the risk don't you think.

One more question for you...

Are you ready to play BIG, to have it ALL, to do it YOUR way?

YES? Send me a DM...and let's chat.

Fraser

Porendra Pratap

Bachelor of Commerce - BCom from Nizam College at Hyderabad Public School

2 年

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Zahmoul El Mays

Attorney At Law at CIVIL COURT CASES

2 年

Well said

Kyle R. Bell ????

Killer B2B Fintech copywriting and marketing strategies (I generate new leads and revenue for B2B Fintech companies)

2 年

I think big, play to win, and get big, Fraser Cameron. It's part of my philosophy.

Awodeji Adedotun

Web Designer For Growing Businesses | Get a custom SEO optimized website for your business in two weeks. | Wix Partner

2 年

I just heard a quote that’s perfectly in tune with what you wrote here. “Be brave to choose uncertainty over certain misery”

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