You only go away physically but never out of mind

We become friends with someone and start spending some time with them. We share all our personal stories with them believing that they are our friends. Sometimes, they are not. They are just there to use you and drain you of all your happiness. Life is full of surprises. Sometimes you become happy and sometimes you get shocked. The life is really amazing. You should live it to the fullest. But some people in our life don’t let us live happily. They are the ones who make our lives really difficult. They draw out happiness from the well of our life and leave us nothing but sadness.

Then comes a time when you have had enough. You cannot just sit there and watch everything as it happens. You have to do something. What do you do? You leave those people. You remove them from your lives as well as yourself from theirs. Everything becomes better and you realize that there are some people in this world who teach you some great lessons by giving you pain. They just come in your life to teach you something. Learn from everything. Learn from the pain and let go of them. You deserve love. You deserve happiness.

Because some people are not meant to be in your life. And if you still keep them you they might turn out to be toxic for you. See people come in our life for various reasons. Some are meant to be with us (eg, life partner,best friends,parents etc) some people come to teach us certain things and go. From certain people we learn to overcome our weakness. From Shakespeare's famous poem "All the world's is a stage" ; people come,play their role and leave". That's how life is. And even if you don't want to them to go,they will because that's role they played and are destined to leave.

This world never ceases to surprise you. You grow up believing that everything is good in this world and that everyone is good. But you slowly start realizing that it is not. There can be reasons for letting people go For ones own happiness. For the other's happiness. When one has taken hurt for a long time. When one is tired of hurting the other. When someone makes your relation or life toxic. Letting people go is like as if they were not meant for us, they belonged in our life as a part of a story which either teaches us a lesson or gives us good and bad experiences. When it's hard for us to hold on a relation with someone be it a friend, a lover or anyone else, we decide to let them go or we decide to leave. You may find each one having similar or different reasons, even some may make excuses as the other was a burden.

Sometimes we realise what a special one we lost but it happened for the other one's happiness, so we let them go. We let them go as we get to know what they are worth for. Sometimes we ourselves decide what the other deserves because we know the story behind. As it is said holding on hurts, so let it go. We can and should never force anyone to stay, if any one wants to go just let them go. They are not your responsibility neither you are their’s.If you can bare it, then bleed together or else let it go to set yourself free. Cheers!