Will you never let your close ones leave?
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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Quoting from a poem ( poet unknown)
"Mistakes Teach You A Lot But Each
Mistake Costs A Lot Too, So Read
And Listen About The Mistakes
Others Did & Learn What Not To Do".
If you leave a place or person, you go away from that place or person. ... your life partner or business partner or some other person with whom you have had a close relationship, you stop living with them or you finish the relationship. We know our close ones are ours and whatever happens in life they will be always with us come what may.
Whenever a close one says " I want to leave for good"! They actually don't really mean to. A word that a person should never use because it's not true! Let's say if a person says I'll never leave you, but finally they'll leave you one day and you never ever imagined them to leave your world and leave you for good!
Even if you have fought with your near and dear one and you found many a faults in them, always consider the best times you have had with them in the past and remember those times they stood by you rock solid in the event of any of the difficult times you were in with them, the boat seemed to sink many a times but together you all pulled it out of the dumps and therefore never allow them to actually mean when they are going to leave your life.
It is true that people enter your lives for specific purposes and intentions sometime and then once they feel that they are not comfortable with you anymore they decide to leave one fine day and you keep wondering what really happened to them or what has gone wrong in the relationship.
But if some one really wants to leave you and tells you firmly so, it is better to let the person go away because holding on to such relationships will only delay the process of separation and in the person's mind it has been decided to leave you there is just no point in making them stay back because today or tomorrow once again on smallest pretext they would do that again and again, and therefore once a person decides to leave it is better to move on and accept the reality that this was destined to happen and some person who was in your life for a short while is not going to be around permanently with you because the intensity of relationship was not there originally and therefore after a while the person might have realised to move out of the relationship.
"Don't worry, the right people will never leave you"..all this quote wants to state is, live free, be yourself. Do whatever you want, do not suppress the feeling of your heart just because some people may get angry or leave you. Because, the right people, who truly loves or understands you, will stay no matter what. Just believe in yourself and let the bygones be bygones!
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4 年A lovely reflect piece, one of the terms to understand how people touch us and leave is 'the time of life friends' meaning we often find ourselves meeting people because we marry, or our kids start school or we start new studies.? Each shift or movement brings new friends 'time of our life friends'.? If great when you have it then be thankful.? If you or they move to the next stage, it's OK.? Lovely thought provoking sharing ??
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4 年Very meaningful article. Thank you for such posts
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4 年Well said
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4 年excellent- eye opening article- very much valuable