You need yourself more that you need them

“Who you are” is totally dependent on the way you think you are and do for yourself. When you start developing negative ideas, feelings, and behavioural patterns accumulate over time to become a habit, therefore becoming who you are. First thing in the morning you should write down what you dislike about yourself, whether it’s your figure, a way of thinking, or a certain behaviour, and start working on fixing it. It might take days, months, or weeks, but you will reach it eventually once you set it in your brain.

When you are sitting with people, use the body language to your benefit. Make yourself bigger than life size and do not cross your hands, put your hands between your legs, or around yourself. On the contrary, spread your hands on the couch next to you, open up your legs by not stretching too much otherwise it would be really weird and act confident.

Remember that each and every person is unique in every respect and you need to think about it, since there are more than 7 billion people on earth, and there is no single person like you. That is something you could brag about. You have all 24 hours a day, 8 hours for sleep, and 8 hours for work or school. You still have around 8 hours for yourself. If you give yourself 2 hours a day on developing a skill, reading, or learning something, imagine what you can achieve a year from now.

Your friend or colleague might be better at what they do, have a perfect family, charming, and know how to act in every situation. Some people are born with it, and some work on becoming like that. Instead of feeling bad about yourself, try to develop qualities in yourself that would make you a better person.

You need to learn to accept yourself as you are, including your strengths and weaknesses alike. Don’t shy off or inhibit anything inside rather be open ,original, and do what you love doing the most. Love is abstract , it can’t be seen, but can only be felt, thus stop thinking and start feeling, ignite your emotions, realise your passions , interests, and live the life you expect with out worrying about what the society have to say.

We are what we think we are, rather we are what we think we are not. We don’t realise and know ourselves truly, we aren’t familiar with our inner potential and thus seek love externally. Love resides within and in order to love someone else you need to love yourself. Learn to accept things as they are, be mindful ,let go of everything

Every morning, before getting off your bed, imagine how your life would be if you change this habit. Feel it as if you became the person you want to become. Live the Life you Love , Love the Life you live. Focus on admiring positive aspects of yourself and realise but not ignore your weakness.

When you have accepted yourself and known your true self you will be familiar with your abilities and capabilities. Only by trusting and having faith and believing in ourselves can we conjure confidence and courage in our selves. Life is a quest , everyone is to make independent choices leading to different fate and destiny.

It is when we are free of resentful thoughts can we achieve the clarity to love things as they are. We don’t see things as they are , we see things as we are. Everything comes at a price , and to change yourself , your attitude towards self and others. For everything we gain , we loose something else. Thus vices and ill behaviour needs to be removed in order to make space for love and compassion in your heart. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre