You are more than you think you are.
Joris Plu - Ultimate Mindset Change, Personal and Business
'Change your mindset so you can live the life you really need.' Pro Certified Lifo? Therapist / Business Consultant Vlerick Business School
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You Are More Than You Think You Are
Too often, we live our lives as if we're confined by invisible walls—barriers that tell us who we are, how much we’re worth, and what we can achieve. The truth, however, is that these walls are largely constructed by external forces: the opinions, judgments, and expectations of others. We allow these influences to shape our identity, limiting our potential and undermining our own abilities. But here’s the thing—you are more than you think you are.
One of the most common human tendencies is to minimize who we are.
Whether it’s downplaying our talents, suppressing our ambitions, or doubting our own worth, many of us are far too quick to label ourselves as “not enough.” Why? Often, it's because we are overly influenced by what others think of us. We learn to see ourselves through the lens of their judgments, criticisms, or even neglect. From an early age, society teaches us to prioritize external validation—be it in school, work, or our personal relationships. Over time, we internalize these views and come to believe that the limits others set for us are real.
Imagine how much you’ve held back simply because someone else couldn’t see your full potential.
Maybe a teacher doubted your capabilities, and you believed them. Maybe a friend or family member was dismissive of your dreams, and you let their indifference convince you to give up. These are all examples of how we let outside perspectives diminish who we are. We shrink ourselves to fit within the narrow boxes others construct for us.
But the truth is, other people’s opinions are not facts. Just because someone else can't see your greatness, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Their limitations don’t have to be your own. You have reservoirs of talent, creativity, and resilience that you may not even be aware of yet. Often, we’re so caught up in how the world sees us that we forget to ask, “How do I see myself? What am I truly capable of?”
Real growth begins when you stop letting other people define you and start defining yourself. It means daring to see beyond the labels and expectations that have been placed on you. It means recognizing that, yes, you might fail, and yes, you might be misunderstood, but that doesn’t diminish your worth.
Remember, you are a collection of stories, talents, and possibilities that no one else fully understands.
You are capable of more than you’ve been led to believe—more love, more courage, more achievement. The key is to reclaim your sense of self and stop outsourcing your identity to those who don’t truly know you.
So the next time you catch yourself thinking small, remember that you are more than the sum of other people's opinions. You are more than the limits placed on you by past experiences or current circumstances. You are more than you think you are.
And it’s time to start living that truth.