You Matter, Too ??

Hello Beautiful,

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I hope this note finds you with a smile and a little extra light in your heart!

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Let me ask—do you often find yourself giving, giving, and then giving some more? Maybe you’re there for everyone around you but forget to save a little for yourself.

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I get it. If you’re familiar with the Enneagram, I’m a Type 2—“The Helper.” It’s my nature to be warm-hearted, care deeply, and support others. But when things get out of balance, the shadow side creeps in: self-sacrifice and burnout.

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Recognizing our patterns can be powerful (and yes, sometimes a bit uncomfortable). But the real magic happens when we do something with this awareness—when we shift from autopilot to intention.

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As Einstein said, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” So, let’s take a page from his book and try something different, shall we?

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Last night, I went to a Sam Hunt concert. My friend and I sang, danced, and let loose like carefree kids. It was pure joy! When I got home, I felt genuinely fulfilled and happy, and I realized something important—it’s experiences like this that fill my cup.

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So, my friend, what fills your cup?

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Are you intentionally creating the space for those soul-nourishing moments in your life? Even if it’s something as simple as just allowing yourself to “BE”?

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This is your gentle reminder: You are the architect of your destiny. You’re not defined by labels or assessments—they don’t get to write your story.

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Today is a new day, an opportunity to practice, try again, and let yourself be in the equation—because here’s the truth: You matter too. ??