YOU ARE "A LOT"
Liz Evans Media LLC
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I want to address a common phrase we often hear: "You are a lot." It's a statement that can carry both positive and negative connotations, but we're here to say, don't change who you are and instead embrace you.
In a world that sometimes seeks conformity and moderation, being "a lot" can feel like a burden or an anomaly. Society may try to fit us into predefined boxes, expecting us to shrink ourselves to fit certain molds. But we believe that true authenticity lies in celebrating and embracing every aspect of who we are, even when it may be seen as "a lot" by others.
Each one of us is a complex and multifaceted individual, with unique passions, talents, quirks, and perspectives. Our emotions, thoughts, and behaviors can be vibrant, intense, and beautifully diverse. We shouldn't apologize for being passionate, enthusiastic, driven, creative, outspoken, etc. These qualities make us who we are, and they contribute to the richness of our lives and the lives of those around us.
When someone says, "You are a lot," they may be expressing surprise, discomfort, or even admiration for the energy and presence you bring to the table. However, it's important to remember that their perception does not define your worth or your journey. Instead of internalizing their words, take a moment to reflect on the incredible attributes that make you unique.
Embracing yourself means accepting and loving all aspects of your personality, even the ones that may seem overwhelming to others. It's about being comfortable in your own skin, recognizing that you have something valuable to offer, and finding the right spaces and people who appreciate and support your authentic self.
It's crucial to surround yourself with individuals who uplift and celebrate your "a lot." Seek out communities, friendships, and relationships that value and nurture your individuality. Surround yourself with people who appreciate your passion, your drive, and your unique perspective. Remember, you have the power to choose who you surround yourself with, and it's essential to surround yourself with those who uplift and celebrate your true self.
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So, the next time someone tells you that you're "a lot," wear it as a badge of honor. It means you're unafraid to be yourself, unapologetic in your passions, and unwavering in your commitment to living authentically. Celebrate the fact that you bring a vibrant energy and a unique presence to the world.
Don't let anyone make you feel small or insignificant because you're "a lot." Embrace your uniqueness, celebrate your individuality, and continue to shine brightly. Remember that being yourself is a gift to the world, and you have the power to inspire and impact those around you with your genuine nature.
Stay true to who you are, embrace your "a lot," and let your light shine brightly.
~LE Inspire Love Me
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3 个月Two people I’ve known who proudly described themselves as “a lot” were narcissistic, insensitive, and manipulative. They steamrolled others feelings and needs and—like you advised—wore it as a badge of honor… claiming “that’s just who I am…” which implies, “oh well, there’s nothing I can do about it.” In my own experience it would benefit that person to recognize how their actions impact others in a harmful way, and determine if there’s unresolved issues that lead to being “a lot”. And if so, do something to address it like get therapy if necessary. Being “a lot” can be a mask, denial or avoidance, as well as exciting, non-conforming or unique.