Are you living or leaving the marriage made in heaven?
Madhusudan G
Associate Director – QA | I help organizations achieve 85%+ test automation coverage and zero critical defects with AI-driven frameworks | 11 Patents | North Star Award Winner
What would the world be like without a?Caring Partner?in your life, who not only love you, but?live for you?
Whether it is arranged marriage or Love marriage, I feel marriages are made in heaven.?
But surprisingly, some of these marriages quickly FADE, some other marriages slowly WADE and some other marriages will long CHARADE.?
And only few marriages live on Earth.?
Do you know, Why?
The biggest?problem?in today’s fast-paced world is, most of the people,
soon accept their relationship in short-time, and at
noon they decline their relationship for long-time, and in
moon they sit alone thinking why they couldn’t live-up their relationship for life-time.?
Did you ever come across such people in your life??
In this busy world, How can we help these people and the next generation?
If you take an?example?of how the relationship in general is leading to?sustain, success and shine,?even at higher level between different Nations over a period of time?
then we find that we are building great relationships with people based on 3 steps (I.E.S)
1. Import,?
2. Export and?
3. Support
Import, is all about YOU?Accepting/ Respecting?others Values, Strengths and Weaknesses when you import your life partner from another family to your family
Export, is all about YOU?Giving/ Sharing?to others your Values, Strengths and Weaknesses while building your relationship
Support, is all about YOU?Going Beyond and Above?to support others.?Examples of Support: Helping each other to overcome others weakness with your strengths and your weakness with others strengths for seamless living,?Helping others in Natural Calamities,?Helping countries when they are in economic crisis, etc.
You know, by definition, Marriage INVITE to?U.N.I.T.E
U stands for –?Understand?each other’s values, strengths and weaknesses and be an?emotional shelter?to each other.
N stands for –?Nourish?your relationship with forgiveness and respect to each other to build REALationship (beyond relationship).
I stands for –?Influence?your mind so that the decisions you take will be compatible and an Ornament/ Legacy to your both families.
T stands for –?Tune your tone and words?in your communication. You know most of the times, the problems begin and never end because of the un-tuned words in your communication.
E stands for –?Embrace?the positivity in relationship building, you show your intent to the extent that everyone in both families can feel *your love in abundance and *their presence.
And now, it’s time to bring 2 things together?
Yes, it’s time
It’s time to bring 2 things together to know how to love your partner and know how to live for your partner, i.e.,
the understanding of the?3 step relationship?(Import, Export, Support) in general??+?simplified?U.N.I.T.E?technique to live your marriage.
I wonder, What do you do to LIVE your marriage??
Madhusudan here… reminding you,?
If you are already married but struggling to live in harmony, or?
if you are going to be newly married,?
then
“I don’t want you to be starry-eyed”.
“I want you to be happy, healthy and the unstoppable ‘Caring Partner’ to your better half”.
Deal 100%?
Great.
Thank you
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QA tech lead / Associate Quality Assurance Manager with extensive testing experience in manual , automation and performance test.
2 年Well drafted Madhu! Differences understood and caring for each other at all stages of life will make the journey lively. Recently in India also the break up ?? after marriage has increased and is no good sign for our society moving forward.