You know 'you'. So value 'you'.

You know yourself better than anyone else in this world.

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Just be yourself and do what you do. If you're doing it right, you are absolutely doing well.

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Be humble. Be kind. Be there if someone needs you. Be available if you think you could be of some assistance to help someone to live in a better way. But don't leave yourself out.

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People have a right to decline your love no matter how pure your intentions are. You are not what they want, and that is okay.

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Don’t mold yourself to fit in. Everything and Everyone is not for you. You just need to know that you attract the vibes you deserve and what works best for you. You deserve the greatest blessings. You don’t attract everyone and everything but the best and extraordinary.

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People are weird. It's not your responsibility to babysit people's feelings or to rebuild bonds you did not break. Let them sit with who they are, you’re above this.

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At a certain age, things are not misunderstandings or mistakes anymore. ?It's their character, and I'm not with it. I used to be afraid of losing people until I realized, most of them were never really down for me anyway. Even though my loyalty & love for them ran deep, they could care less. So instead of being afraid of losing them, I fell back & watched them lose 'me'. That was growth.

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You know yourself better than them, who lost you. Let them create false narratives about you, you can’t stop their thinking process. All you can do is get rid of their toxicity by letting them say what they want but you shouldn’t wait and listen to such sh*t. Get away, leave the room, you have better places to go, better sights to see, better sounds to relish, better tasks to do, better air to breathe. Better be entertained by nightingales than waste your minutes in listening to some bark shows.

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Not having the urge to explain or defend yourself constantly is real peace. You deserve the greatest blessings. You deserve people in your life who don't have misconceptions about your personality and intentions. You deserve the rainbow, the sun, the moon and the stars. Don't settle for less, friend. Don't. You do not deserve a person who keeps using their pain as an excuse to hurt you.

I've been a person who sticks around longer than I should. But I'm off now. I'm still learning life, learning people, learning surroundings. I just realized, all this time, I did not think about, even the slightest, about me.

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Be humble but just because I do not require much does not mean I deserve the bare minimum. I'm loyal but my loyalty doesn’t keep me in situations where I have to disrespect myself to be seen. Instead my common sense comes to the rescue and takes me out of the place that does not deserve my presence. Respecting myself is as important as I respect the feeling of others. Empathy is important but knowing my worth and valuing my opinions is important too.

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At some point in your life you get tired of unhealthy connections, whether it's with people or things. As you grow certain things becomes necessary to let go in order to make you feel lighter and breathe properly.

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People look so different once you don't care about them anymore. You begin to notice how ordinary they are, how it was your love that made them unique, that placed them in some sort of pedestal.

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It eventually gets better without any sort of wasteful explanations. One day you realize you're no longer upset, mad, hurt, bothered by the things that took so much of your energy and thoughts.

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You will be at peace. Practicing non-attachment is the key. Accepting what comes and allowing it to leave when it's time. What's for me will stay for me effortlessly if I'm on my right way.

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I know my worth. I’m worthy of being loved, being valued, being seen and being heard. I'm not self-centered. I care for myself as much as I care for others. You gotta know your worth even when it gets lonely sometimes, often or in a while.

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Lately my spirit has been telling me to relax and be patient. Observe and take nothing personal. But take everything for what it is. Accept the reality and make a move.

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Life has humbled me so much that I do not wish bad for anyone and neither do I want revenge from anyone. I just count my blessings and keep walking.

I want to love myself and feel confident about myself. So I made it a point to bring discipline in my life along with fun to keep me happy. I decide my own vibes.

• Taking care of my mind, body and soul.
• Waking up before the sun.
• Eating right.
• Romanticizing life.
• Writing.
• Spending time with nature.
• Dancing to my favorite music.
• Reading.
• Regular Yoga and Exercises to keep myself in good shape.
• Sketching.
• Practicing gratitude with the people whose words motivate me, praise me, appreciate me and help me grow.

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You have not thought lately that how important you are. You could name 10 most important people of your life but you wouldn’t dare to put yourself on that list. "Wait, is this selfish?" No it is not. It's a luxury. It's a luxury if you think about yourself, respect yourself and value your feelings.

There is a person inside me who has been living with me for the past 20 years. That is a longest time I've been with someone this close. There is nothing hidden from ‘her’. ‘She’ needs what I deserve. Yes, ‘I’ am ‘my’ own best friend who listens to ‘me’ even when I don't roll a word out of my tongue. ‘She’ listens to my unspoken feelings. ‘She’ listens to the sighs of helplessness. ‘She’ feels it when I tried to muffle my screams inside me and chose to hold the tears right inside my eyelids and fought to not let it escape.

“Why?” she said. “To not look weak.” I answered. She continued, “You are allowed to feel every emotion and still feel strong. You’re a human. Humans have every emotion. Don’t listen to the outside noise, just listen to me. You are not weak. You are way stronger than most people because you see a friend in me. You see a friend within you. You are me, I am you. Always listen to me. Talk to me. Listen to your inner voice. That is me. I am your inner voice.”

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Talking to yourself isn’t absurd or weird. Not talking is. Self-talk heals you.

Helps you find solutions. Helps you be at peace with yourself when there are several thoughts making noises that leaves you helpless and confused.

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Live your life, dear friend. Live ‘your’ life. Don’t live ‘your’ life in someone else’s. You've been an unpaid therapist for countless people. Now you need to be your own too, for the person living inside you. ‘She’ wants to grow too, ‘she’ wants to prosper too, ‘she’ wants to be valued and cared too, ‘she’ wants to be heard too.

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Be there, friend. Be there for the person inside you. Hear ‘her' out. Love, Nurture and Value the person inside you.

Keep the person inside you,

Happy, Respected, Loved and Appreciated.

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You know ‘you’. So value ‘you’.

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