You Are Great. Fullstop.

You Are Great. Fullstop.

Have you ever noticed how external stuff gets way more attention than the inside work?

I suspect it's because it’s easier to see and measure things like landing a new job or getting a qualification.

But imagine if we celebrated and talked more about the amazing inner work we do.

Like:

“Hey, I’m happy to announce that over the past two years, I’ve grown in self-compassion.”

Or

“I’m pleased to share I’ve stopped playing the blame game and take responsibility for my actions.”

Or

“I have applied for jobs the whole year and I will not give up until I get appointed, please join me in celebrating my resilience and determination.”

Wouldn't these be powerful statements??

I think our external focus is why we sometimes lose sight of our own greatness.

We focus so much on the external wins that we start comparing ourselves, doubting our abilities, and feeling like we’re not enough.

But the reality is, you’re worthy. Just because you’re human – no qualifying criteria. That's it!

?Don’t get me wrong, landing a new role or qualifying in something is awesome, it takes hard work, commitment and sacrifice to achieve these things.

However, when we shift focus to inner wins, it does more than just boost morale—it changes how we see success:

  • Less materialism: We become less driven by external rewards and start valuing personal growth and fulfillment.
  • Improved mental health: We learn to validate ourselves from within, reducing anxiety, stress, and the constant pressure to perform.
  • Increased confidence: We stop doubting our worth and comparing ourselves to others, embracing who we are and what we’re capable of.
  • Stronger resilience: Inner growth equips us with the strength to navigate setbacks, challenges, and uncertainty with greater ease.
  • Sustainable motivation: When we celebrate our inner progress, our motivation becomes more self-driven and long-lasting, not reliant on external validation.
  • Higher emotional intelligence: As we grow in self-compassion and responsibility, we become more empathetic and emotionally aware, improving our interactions and leadership abilities.
  • A balanced perspective on success: By acknowledging our inner wins, we redefine success as a combination of external achievement and internal peace, creating a more balanced and satisfying life.

Self-worth is the foundation of everything – it’s the key to a happier more fulfilling life.

Please share your inner growth below, let’s celebrate our inner wins.

Lucy Nkohla

Sociologist in Tech | Digital Product Management | BU Xtramiler 2023 | Exo Consultant

1 个月

I’m pleased to share that I’ve grown in my love and acceptance of myself, and that it’s proving to be the best thing for my self-worth ???

Disebo Ramonyalioa

Strategic Human Capital Consultant l Leadership / Team Coaching and Facilitation l The Mentorship Boardroom Mentor I Executive Search l Board Chairman l Independent Trustee Board member l Passionate foodie and Cook

1 个月

I do love this beautiful twist! It is really powerful ... It requires one to always be in the moment and not "wait" for those big external accomplishments! Thanks for this leader.

Shenna Sizakele Motsuenyane

Thought Leader|DEIB champion| Industrialist |Mcom candidate in Industrial and Organisational psychology Relationship/Business Development Manager

1 个月

I am in awe ??, it honestly takes a lot to do the internal work yet less celebrated. I have personally experienced the power of inner joy and oh wow it is so liberating to first be your own cheerleader. Honestly we often lose self worth to what the world views worthy. Today my mantra is . I am doing great: Full stop ?? Thank you Maiyo Thank you ??

Nono Cele Xaba

Multi-Award-Winning Sports Broadcaster | Author of These Words | Founder at Salt & Light Merchandise | Director at VX Events & Logistics | Keynote Speaker on Courage and Leadership

1 个月

Well said Maiyo! Powerful.

Loveness Marabwa

Senior Risk Officer @ ZPC | MBA | CRMPrac. | Alumna L’Oréal – RoSPA Women in Risk & Safety Leadership

1 个月

Warning ? : this comment is ridiculously long, but I just got carried away. Absolutely loved this article. Your words beautifully remind us to celebrate our inner growth. It's very easy to get caught up in external validation, but true self-worth stems from within. This resonates deeply, especially in today's fast-paced world. I am reminded of the lotus flower, growing in muddy waters yet blooming into breath-taking beauty. Similarly, our inner work may be unseen, but it's the foundation for outward success. Aristotle's concept of “eudaimonia”: flourishing through cultivating inner virtues – comes to mind. And Maya Angelou's words echo in my thoughts: “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” Personally, I have learnt to reframe self-doubt as an opportunity for introspection and growth. It's a journey of embracing imperfection and redefining success, messy, nonlinear, and uncomfortable, yet oh-so-worth it. My inner win? Silencing my inner critic and trusting my instincts. What's yours? And your headline, ‘You Are Great. FULLSTOP,” is pure genius. I love how: - It boldly declares our inherent greatness, no strings attached.

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