You Got to Have Balls!

Really, well I am not going to grow a pair anytime soon?

Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding. – Betty White

Why is it that successful women are told they have to act like a woman and think like a man, be one of the boys and grow a pair? More importantly why are so many women doing this in order to get ahead? This is something that perturbs me. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that we need more and more women in boardrooms, running and owning massive businesses but not so they can continue the thinking that has brought economies to their knees. I read articles and blogs about this, I see and hear how many women believe that women are not helping each other. What’s going on, is this the truth? I don’t know, but something has to change on a consciousness level, and it can only change with a dramatic increase in the amount of women investing in their personal development and just being a woman.

For a number of years I have been researching female breadwinners, single or divorced moms or just plain and simple, women who are the primary income earner, the breadwinner in the family. In many ways I have been my own best research subject. The past 3 years, as a weekly talk-radio show host, I have interviewed many of the world’s leading experts on how to create life and business success. Interestingly enough most them are men.

Why so few women I often wonder?

There has been a dramatic shift in how many of these leading exerts have expanded their horizons and have been offering their programmes in the personal and professional development arena to an ever expanding audience across the globe. These experts, some very worthy of the title, and others not so, have been making millions of dollars.

I’ve attended loads of superb “FREE seminars”. Of course you learn some wonderful success creating lessons, however, if you want to move beyond much of the gold-plating (the glitzy yet thin success teachings which are liberally shared during “FREE seminars”) to where the truly valuable 18ct gold reef sits, you have to pay. One thing I know, is that these upsell success programmes are too expensive for most female primary breadwinners, even more so if they’ve got children to take care of.

I see the conference sales tables flooded by men and couples who have money to spend. The single, divorced and breadwinner women, moms who I’ve spoken to, ladies who had hired sitters just so they could attend to learn, ladies who desperately wanted to go and sign-up for their alchemist journey, just couldn’t make the leap. They were overcome by fear and didn’t take action as they were too scared to place their families at risk financially. The money simply wasn’t there.

I see the desire, the excitement of the potential that is within them. Then I see the fear and the guilt around wanting to use money they don't really have, on themselves, on their personal development, theirs and vicariously their family’s success and then I see the overwhelming sadness of acceptance and knowing and resolving themselves to the fact that it just can't be done.

Many of these amazing women opened up and poured their hearts out to me. I could so relate to them and their thoughts, feelings and circumstances, as I too have been there. I’ve also desperately wanted more but my cash flow did not allow me to take the next step and though it frustrated the hell out of me at that moment, I just had to accept it, and “suck it up princess”.

I have had enough. Things have to change I’m going to take a stand for women as its high time the “privilege of the platform” at success seminars saw more women speakers selflessly sharing, caring and honestly serving others as opposed to selfishly wondering how many sales will be closed at the end of my “gig”.

So, I have embarked on a journey, it’s a long story and you can read more about it here https://thequeenparticle.com/about/ - it’s a journey to turn the status quo on its head, to help female breadwinners develop a powerful wealth consciousness and cultivate magnificent mental images of prosperity and success underpinned by a belief structure that they’re worthy and deserving of goodness.

I have decided to do whatever it takes to give female breadwinners out there the very best online teachings on how to create the life and business success they desire, and, to do this at a cost to them of less than $10 a month. This means most female breadwinners can access great teachings month after month and with peace of mind as they haven’t had to take out a second mortgage or sell a body part to fund their personal development journey.

I’ve already put this vision and desire of mine into action through, this community https://thequeenparticle.com/

I am looking for 100 women across the world to become ambassadors, Queens, for the site. I am looking for female breadwinners who want more, much more, who are prepared to give to others, because givers gain! I will give them life-long membership to The Queen Particle community and what I ask in return, is that these Ambassador Queens interact in the forums, and share our message around the globe.

Are you an Ambassador Queen? If you are message me on linked in or contact me here https://www.thequeenparticle.com/contact/

To your great success and your uniquely gorgeous Queen Particle.

Suzanne Styles

www.thequeenparticle.com

PS: Feel free to share this site, its content, and The Queen Particle initiative with as many other women as possible. I’m not interested in competing with the boys, I’m only interested in creating something which will serve millions of female breadwinners worldwide in a way that they can bypass all the fluff-stuff and get the great-stuff right away and affordably so!