Are you failing forward ?

I want to fail , I want to feel the failure, I want to fail often.

We hardly see any one uttering these words, since all of us crave for success. Just try to recollect or remember when did you failed last time in your life ?

Maybe you didn't got the same girl you wanted to marry , you were not able to perform in your first company in your career, you struggled in your relationships with your family or spouse.

There will be something you might have learnt out of all those occasions in your life when you were not happy the way things turned out for you.

“It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure."

We only decide on our failure and success. Nobody else does those judgements. We arrive so soon on the results and tag yourself as failure without focusing on the bigger picture.

Steve jobs was fired from the same company which he started . The dismissal made him realize that his passion for his work exceeded the disappointment of failure.

Further ventures such as NeXT and Pixar eventually led Jobs back to the CEO position at Apple. Jobs said in 2005.

Unfortunately , there are no training schools who teaches us how to handle failure. 

Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end.

"Failure is not final , Success is not fatal."

There are no failures , there are always lessons. It takes adversity to create successes .To be more successful and become successful soon you have to fail fast and fail often.

So ask this question are you failing forward and failing often ??

Let me know your thoughts on this.