Are You Experiencing a Crisis in Confidence? Want to Come Back Stronger?

All bosses/leaders have experienced or will experience a crisis in confidence, self-doubt, or fear when working towards achieving a goal – the more significant and innovative the intended result – the more likely this will occur.

How can you tell if you’re experiencing a crisis in confidence?

You are:

·??????? Unable to make decisions

·??????? Making poor decisions by ignoring the facts

·??????? Concerned or fearful of what others will think, say, or do

·??????? Unable to sleep or fail to take good care of yourself

·??????? Not feeling comfortable with the changes being made

·??????? Unwilling to admit a mistake and take responsibility

·??????? Changing the goal (or intended result) to reflect current progress

When you face a challenging moment or experience doubt or uncertainty, it’s time to regain and revitalize your confidence. Remember, every boss/leader experiences these moments; it does not define your abilities or worth.

How to Regain Your Confidence

Acknowledge Your Feelings: Feeling uncertain or questioning yourself is okay. Recognize and accept these feelings instead of ignoring them. Contact your executive coach, industry mentor, or confidantes if it persists.

Reflect on Your Achievements: Take some time to review what you’ve accomplished in the past by completing the five easy exercises in “It’s Time to Brag! ” A positive reflection on past successes reminds you of your capabilities.

Learn and Adapt: Learning from mistakes or setbacks is crucial. Complete “What Worked? / What Didn’t Work?” Then, with insight and renewed confidence, acknowledge the overlooked tasks and milestones or errors made when completing them.

Seek Advice and Support: Asking for help and talking with your executive coach, mentor, or one or two business professionals is wise. An outside perspective is often constructive and offers encouragement when you listen with an open mind and positive expectations and ask open-ended questions . Remember, the conversation will go faster, and your confidence will return quicker if you remain emotionally unattached to your point of view on how it “should” work.

Set Small, Achievable Tasks to Regain Momentum:

·??????? Adapt your strategies and approach based on what you’ve learned from the exercises and conversations listed above.

·??????? Create a “It’s Done List” (aka To-Do list).

·??????? Break the tasks into smaller, quickly accomplishable steps (e.g., getting a bank loan requires a P&L that is clean and up-to-date).

·??????? Schedule the completion of all of these items and take at least one focused action step now.

The natural confidence this process creates is priceless. But stay and keep in action – you’re not done until the intended result is accomplished.

Practice Self-Care: Ensure you care for your physical and mental health. Exercise, proper nutrition, and relaxation can all contribute to a more positive mindset while rebuilding confidence. Include journaling your brags and what you’re grateful for as part of a healthful ritual.

Stay Persistent: Confidence grows by experiencing and overcoming setbacks, frustrations, and failures. Keep moving forward, even if progress feels slow. Remember, the tortoise, not the racing rabbit, won the race!

When you embrace these steps and take the actions to overcome a crisis in confidence, you will return stronger than before. Don’t forget to acknowledge yourself for this achievement -- and update your brags .

?Jeannette Seibly 2024 All Rights Reserved

Jeannette Seibly?is a Talent Advisor/Leadership Results Coach with over 31 years of practical experience guiding leaders and bosses to improve their hiring, coaching, and managing practices and produce amazing results! And yes, achieving business success always starts with?having the right people in the right jobs !?She has been an Authorized PXT Select? Partner for over 32 years. Contact Jeannette to learn more about these state-of-the-art job-fit assessment tools or how to coach and manage your people to achieve incredible results.

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