Are You Excluding Yourself From Success?
Michelle Price-Johnson
Loving This Life! | Wall Street Journal Leadership Award
Have you ever felt like the world is stacked against you? That other people are keeping you from reaching your goals, so you give up before you start? Does it feel like racism, sexism, poverty, your family's opinions or other barriers are the things stopping you from reaching your goals?
It's easy to blame external factors, but what if the biggest obstacle isn't "out there," but within your own mind? What if your "Inner ME is your main ENEMY"?
I'm not saying obstacles don't exist. I'm saying make sure you aren't the first and best obstacle to your own success.
We've all heard the saying, "Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right." It might sound cliché, but it holds a powerful truth. Our beliefs about ourselves and our abilities profoundly impact our actions and, ultimately, our success – including our financial and career success.
The Self-Limiting Mindset and Your Career
When we internalize negative messages about our worth or potential, we create a self-limiting mindset that can sabotage our careers. We might start believing that we're not qualified for that promotion, not capable of starting our own business, or not deserving of a higher salary. We become our own worst critics, holding ourselves back from the wealth and career advancement we desire.
This mindset can show up in your professional life in many ways:
- Settling for less: We accept jobs or salaries that are below our potential because we don't believe we're worthy of more.
- Not negotiating: We shy away from asking for raises or promotions, fearing rejection or criticism.
- Playing small: We avoid taking risks or putting ourselves forward for opportunities because we're afraid of failure.
Breaking the Cycle to Unlock Your Potential
The good news is that we're not powerless against self-limiting beliefs. We can choose to challenge and rewrite the stories we tell ourselves, opening the door to greater wealth and career fulfillment. Here's how:
- Recognize your negative self-talk: Pay attention to the thoughts that run through your head when you consider career moves or financial goals.
- Challenge your assumptions: Are you underestimating your skills or experience? Research salary trends and job requirements to gain a realistic perspective.
- Build your confidence: Take on challenging projects, seek out mentorship, and invest in your professional development.
- Network strategically: Connect with people who can offer support, advice, and opportunities.
You Deserve Success
Don't let fear or self-doubt hold you back from the financial and career success you deserve. The world needs your unique perspective and talents. Remember, achieving your goals isn't just about overcoming external barriers; it's also about believing in yourself and your ability to create the life you want.
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-Michelle
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