If you don't Talk It Out, you'll Act It Out!

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The ability to have crucial conversations is one of the most vital skills in a leader's journey. These are the conversations that happen when stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong. How we navigate these moments can significantly shape team dynamics, decision-making, and overall success.

In truth, when we face crucial conversations, we can do one of three things:

? We can avoid them.

? We can face them and handle them poorly.

? We can face them and handle them well.

“I don’t know,” you think to yourself. “Given the three choices, I’ll go with handling them well.”

For example, I once had a critical discussion with a team member about their performance. Instead of avoiding the conversation, I approached it with empathy and clarity, focusing on the desired outcome and mutual growth.

The result? Not only did the team member feel supported, but they also improved their performance and our relationship strengthened.

Another instance involved negotiating a major project change with a client. By engaging in an open, honest, and respectful conversation, we were able to come to a solution that benefited both sides, maintaining trust and paving the way for future collaboration.

Leaders who embrace these conversations create environments where transparency, trust, and progress thrive. It’s not always easy, but the impact it has on teams and relationships is immeasurable.

Could the ability to master crucial conversations help your career?

Absolutely. Twenty-five years of research in seventeen different organizations has taught us that individuals who are the most influential—who can get things done and at the same time build on relationships—are those who master their crucial conversations.

Dear readers of One Step Forward, let’s continue to develop the skill of navigating these high-stakes conversations with confidence and care.

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