You Don’t Need a Vacation
Summer is in full swing. Time to pack up the car and head out for a holiday. Time to get outside, enjoy the sunshine, and kick back — right?
We all need a little rest and relaxation once in awhile. And, more importantly, taking a break is a good thing. Some studies show that increased vacation time can actually boost your workplace productivity.
In fact, I worked on this very post in Scotland, where I am enjoying a holiday break with my family. I am fortunate to be able to take time off and keep working — and always feel renewed and energized when I return.
But many people desperately pine for a vacation all year long, hoping to finally escape the stress of work — if only for a week or two. They just want to turn off.
And if you find yourself really digging in your heels when it is time to pack up and go back home — or if you find it even harder to get back into the swing of things once you return to work — something is off.
If this scenario seems familiar, you probably do not need another vacation. You need a new job — one that will make you happy.
It is wise to enjoy a change of scenery and time off. I find it useful to experience new places and people, and even to feel a bit unsettled at times. It freshens my perspective and new ideas emerge.
But work should not be something that you want to escape from permanently. So, before you start planning yet another getaway, consider if your job is helping you to:
Get busy
Many workplace frustrations stem from boredom — because you are not being challenged or do not feel that your work is meaningful. Work should be a motivator. Ask yourself if your current job is challenging you to stretch and grow. And if not, consider how you can change your work situation for the better.
Be fully present
Contrary to popular belief, you cannot separate your work and personal life into two tidy halves that you carefully balance. I believe that work is life. It should feed you, not deplete you. The right job will enable you to finish each day with a “good-tired” feeling — knowing that you worked to your potential — so that you can enjoy the people and the activities that you love.
Pursue sustainable happiness
Does your relaxation evaporate as soon as you pull in your driveway? That is because your vacations are only providing a temporary fix for the real problem: your job. Living from vacation to vacation is not sustainable. Instead of seeking happiness from a getaway, you need — and deserve — a job that will fulfill you throughout the entire year.
Some people spend their whole lives working from one vacation to the next. And their cure for the post-vacation blues is to simply start planning the next one.
But once you find a position that makes you happy, you will not desperately need to take that vacation. And then your holiday will be what it should be — a nice, restorative rest … not an escape from your job.
Have you found a job that makes you happy? Share your stories in the comments below.
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Electrical Engineer at Leman Engineering & Consulting
8 年I think this can even go back to majors pursued in college. Statistically, it's not uncommon for someone to switch majors. In my case, I am about to start my third year of studying electrical engineering. There are late nights and long days of project work. But, then there's the excitement when IT ALL WORKS! Sometimes I wonder if I'm stubborn and just refuse to quit. (And at this point, switching majors would mean another year in college.) However, I choose to believe that I'm not just sticking with it because I don't like giving up, but because I know that if I can just learn this next concept or debug this program...then I'll remember the excitement and enjoyment that made me start down this path in the first place. I'm still on a summer vacation, and part of me is groaning about all the hard work I'm going to go back to. But there's also a part of me that's excited to continue learning more of the theory behind the "black magic" of electrical engineering. If you're going to switch college majors or careers, don't let it be just because it's too hard. Do it because you can't find any way to enjoy it.
Senior Technology Professional
8 年Interesting but now I think that Aha! is one of those companies where employees cannot have a "turn off" "vacation" or "time off". No, the words I guess that sums this up is "working remotely".
Helping People with Technology-Sr. Enterprise CSM - Domo
8 年Once again, true stuff here. I thought I needed an industry change, but it was actually exactly this same scenario.
Co-Owner of Shahana kurta.
8 年Nice