Are You Dimming Your Sexuality?

Sensuality is about feeling alive, awake, and engaged in your body. When you’re able to relate to the world around you through those lenses, through feeling the aliveness in your body, you ooze sexuality, you see the world differently, you experience the magic of the world, and attract amazing opportunities.

Yet, unless we have confidence, faith, and a strong sense of security in ourselves, it’s nearly impossible to let our sexual energy truly flow.

The journey into our sensuality and sexuality is the deep reclamation of our greatest power of the divine feminine.

Our body is the core of how we define our erotic pleasure, and it becomes such a sovereign act when we claim our own body for ourselves.

Be playful, allow your curiosity to lead you.

Society has painted a sexual role for women, that cuts us off from our true nature.

If we don’t allow our true sensual nature to shine through, we’re not truly living our authenticity.

I know I’ve definitely allowed my fear to be in control, in dimming my feminine sexuality throughout much of my life.

But the true nature of our sexuality can’t be compartmentalised.

We need to create safety within our entire body before we feel safe to open our hearts and bodies in the presence of another.

Embodying our primal essence allows us to be magnetic. It allows us to radiate the frequency that our soul desires.

When we’re stuck in the heaviness that we’ve allowed to become acceptable, our concerns about our bodies, facial expressions, looking a certain way, sounding a certain way, moving a certain way, and even coming to orgasm or experiencing pleasure in a certain way, cut our sexual energy off from moving at its own will and granting us access to pleasure that we can’t know without surrender.

All these elements come from fear of our sexuality in its purity.

To truly embody our sensual fire, we must find the courage that’s bigger than fear of being rejected or judged for it.

We must find the knowing in our core that releases our sensuality, that sets us free and feeds our soul in a mind-blowing way, that will override any false sense of love and power that comes with playing the prescribed role of a “sexy woman”.

INVITE YOUR HEART AND YONI TO DANCE IN THEIR SACREDNESS?

Sexual energy opens us to the ascension of our feminine power.

It’s been hushed for so long that many women struggle to access it, or even find the awareness that their perspective of it is toxic or limited.

Who are YOU?

Recognise what your soul is calling you to be.

We’ve been taught that, if we embody the sexuality of the 'desirable woman', it invokes men to treat us badly and women to hate us.

This leaves us feeling lonely, unsatisfied, and longing for love.

But, if we were to set it free with an open, undefensive, trusting heart, we’d find access to an infinite love for ourselves and one another. We’d meet pleasure, joy, and happiness in their true colours.

Sex and love get messy because we’re usually always trying to control one or the other, and neither can be restrained. They go hand in hand, one cannot live without the other.

Tap into your heart and yoni, and allow the energy that flows through these gateways to entwine and dance in their sacredness.

We need to surrender to their force, their power, and receive the beauty of their love affair with one another.

Sexual energy is, in some way, the centrepiece of feminine power. It’s the combination of a free heart, a love affair with our body, and an awakening of the soul. From here, our creative life force and feminine intuitive wisdom can blossom, but our sexuality is the heart of our power and expression, birthing in full form.

The illusions of sexual energy have the potential to shut down our hearts and disconnect us from our bodies.

The illusions have the potential to taint our sexual experiences and to put out our creative fire.

They have the potential to make it very hard to trust spirit moving through us.

BUT, it doesn't have to be that way. And it’s this we have to believe in.

This energy lives in our feminine bones. Our soul knows it, our heart and yoni ache for us to surrender to the infinite journey of unveiling and expansion, drinking in the freedom, the power, and the love of this beautiful life. As beautiful souls, in beautiful bodies, with one another on this beautiful earth.

Find the people who are ready for you. Find the people who are aching for you to surrender as much as they for you.

These are the ones we want to spend our lives with.

These are the ones who will love us, for us.

These are the ones who make life worth living.

These are our dearest and best friends, the ones our life is meant for.

WORKING WITH OUR FEMININE BODY

When we experience and connect with pleasure through the body, our sensuality comes alive and our whole world opens up.

We experience the most heightened levels of freedom, and life becomes blissful and beautiful.

When you are connected and comfortable in your body, and your own sexual energy is not used against you, you claim back your sensuality in your own authenticity, however that may feel for you.

Yet, for many of us, when we think of erotic sexuality and pleasure, our minds go straight to sexual pleasure or lovemaking. But our pleasure is so much more than what we do in the bedroom, or with another person.

Cultivating pleasure is loving and living life, it is the orgasmic energy that feeds your vitality, creativity, and life force.

From this space, you experience pleasure because your body is open to receiving and feeling.

It’s moving away from numbness and disconnection, and into feeling alive.

It’s feeling into all your sensations and knowing how to be in the body.

Unfortunately, women’s sexuality has been weaponized and used against us.

This has left women feeling shame, and living around the stories about our bodies and how we should or should not be expressing our pleasures. We may not even be aware of it because it may be generational.

In order to heal trauma and ancestral pain we are carrying, we have to invite our body in and start working with the body.

We store this information, not only in the body, but also in the pelvic floor, the womb, which is a woman’s special portal for everything in life.

If we don’t have the tools to process tension and energies that are stored in the pelvic floor, it can be manifested in the body in a destructive way.

This can be manifested as anger, bitterness, frustration, or that feeling that something is not aligned or not feeling true to our heart.

I bet you know this feeling all too well. I did for a very long time.

We all do, as women. It is inevitable with society the way it is.

We just haven’t been given the tools to know how to move this energy in a healthy way.

EMBODIMENT PRACTICES TO RECLAIM PLEASURE

Reclaiming pleasure, and your ecstatic nature, is a deep journey of self-awareness. It’s not about trying to be more sexual, it’s coming home to self.

It’s a self-practice, a personal journey that we must all embark on before it is possible to experience pleasure with another.

When you feel calm and safe in the body, then you bring a whole new meaning to what it feels like to experience pleasure in life. It’s then that you understand for yourself how to come back to the safety of your body and cultivate presence.

Only then are you able to embody and show your partner because you know how to cultivate this in yourself.

If you get the chance to work with me, you will know how important movement is. We will explore and reclaim pleasure through activating your womb space.

When you engage in these embodiment practices, you will open yourself up to the soft, sensual, wild, raw energy of your feminine power, all whilst connecting with your soul.

You will also realise that embodiment practices are not just to heal or fix you, they’re tools to connect you with pleasure and your natural essence, so you feel confident and empowered in your own skin.

No one else is responsible for making you feel a certain way. Only you are responsible for making YOU feel alive, free, and overall radiant.

And you can do this through embodiment practices that cultivate pleasure through your body, by awakening your yoni and awakening your pleasure senses.

Embodiment practices are also practical ways (tools) to meet yourself with the pure desire of connection with your body.

When you are embodied, and you know yourself and what you desire, you can express these with your loved one.

So, step out of your head and into your body, to truly welcome your authentic self.

Create an intimate relationship with self, and ignite a confidence that comes from appreciating and loving all that you are, every part of you.