Are you communicating well with YOUR DRIVER?

Are you communicating well with YOUR DRIVER?

I was traveling to one of my client's sites, I wanted to take some rest while traveling so I opted for a taxi.?

Generally, all the taxi drivers can see our destination clearly on our map and also knows which route will take lesser time. The interesting part is how many of them still ask "Kaha Jayenge Madam"??

He asked, and I answered, I think map par destination hai!?

Mam, driver hoon, clearly confirm karonga to assani hogi. (Mam - I am a driver, if I will confirm clearly, it will be easy to reach the destination)

Exactly!!!?

How many times you are just running without knowing where you are??

How many times you are so busy but still at the end of the day you feel unfulfilled?

How many times do you feel?that you are not reaching where you want to be?

But did you tell your TAXI-DRIVER - where specifically you want to be??

What specifically do you want??

Do you want to learn more about it??

We deal with so many challenges in our life every day.?

In the midst of so many challenges, I learned how important it is to give out a?clear message to your internal driver?on an everyday basis.?

Here I am again to serve you all today with my learnings and experiences.?

I have been practicing self-reflection using NLP feedback process. We train ourselves to go in our own observer position and observe what we can do differently.?

This has really helped me to?guide my own internal driver?to walk towards my purpose more smoothly! I have also noticed that when I am falling into negativity, my driver doesn't have clear instructions, and I missed the communication!?

So what, go back and give your driver clear instructions/requests again and build a deeper relationship with the driver! (I call it Consultant for myself, learned through Carmen Bostic, NEW CODE).

?Let's build?communication with our internal driver?and while building it, here are 5 simple things to keep in mind:?

1. CLARITY:?

Today is my rest day - Clearly, so no crying about conflicts, no guilt of having that extra chocolate, no FOMO,?

Do you guide your driver clearly??

Today is our performance day - NO distractions at all, no falling into negativity, and no crying about past failures.?

Today is my Planning Day - No running about future worries, no going in past failures, clearly picking up the learnings to apply and not to apply. Be congruent before you plan??

Some of the examples?of Clear instructions to the driver What?do?I want out of my day today??

Every day we have different goals, like every day the cab drivers has so many different people at different destinations. But the job is to know the destination.?

It's as?important to tell your driver what to?focus on so that?they can take precautions from any road accidents! You never know what?is going to be an external environment, but if you will be clear about where you want to focus, your productivity will just double.?

2. INTENTION: What's the INTENTION?

This has gone so deep in my sense that everything I am doing is an example of what my intention is.?

So If I am writing to you today, is a way?my intention of service is fulfilled.?

What's my intention - What's my purpose and how deeply that purpose means to me??

Yes, I use to say that I would like to transform people in 2015 also,?but the way I use to?feel then and the way I feel about my vision today is very different.?

I see it?as, every act I do, how that act can fall?under an example of it touching someone, it inspires someone, it serves a higher purpose of transformation in the world! This is not about being great,?this is about being FULFILLED!?

For me, intentions drive attention every time if it is set clearly, deeply, and congruently!?

If you have an intention to go to the gym, just because you want to lose weight, trust me chunking your intention at a?higher level can change the feelings when you go to the gym!?

I go to the gym not because I?want to lose weight,?I want to go because it's a?part of my purpose,?TRANSFORMATION. And how easily my acts are towards it!?

So keep your intentions at the FIRST?always - If your?intention is Love, then what's the point of not letting go of someone's mistake??

If your intention is growth, then what's the point of not letting go of your past failures?

If your intention is transformation, then what's the point to think only??

Let your driver be aware of the intentions deeply and yes, repeating the intentions inside yourself with deeper feelings, makes a big difference!?

3. CONGRUENCE

Are you clear and congruent,?this action is what?you want and no one else??

Are you doing it because someone told you to do it??

Are you doing it because so many people are doing it?

Are you doing it because YOU WANT IT BADLY??

When your intentions are strong and when you are deeply congruent this is what?you want - your body and mind are just aligned.?

Alignment and misalignment?are a game in itself.?

Think about it, a month sometimes pass by and you haven't taken that action, there can be multiple reasons -?

- You got busy with emergencies at a personal level?

- You wanted to complete one task first?

- You were not physically well?

In any of the cases, the most important part is that your unconscious is aligned to something else and your conscious is thinking something else.?

If you were in the above scenarios, have an agreement with your driver, that I want to focus on my health for this month so that I can get ready to serve my higher purpose. (this is an example of agreement, you can have agreements that align with your intentions, and are clear and specific. And it also serves the higher intention of your action)?

When you do this, you create a deeper alignment towards your intention. It is exactly like creating a deeper friendship with your driver!?

4. CHALLENGES

Every challenge for the driver is important so that he develops more skill sets and more neural pathways!?

I love challenges, I guess! I have been in life with so many challenges, that maybe I started liking it and life became more useful with challenges! What's the fun on the straight road at times??

But have I well informed my driver on how to be able to manage challenges, how do I handle my state and how do I turn them into opportunities??

Have I given a frame to my unconscious driver that surprises me by handling that challenge in a new way? And if I do so, my response to the challenge changes.?

Let's train our drivers to overcome the challenges differently by:?

- Having regular communication with it?

- Training the muscle?

- Using it regularly?

My unconscious has always been a guide for me, do you also want to make this relationship or do you already have? Do let me know, I would love to hear!?

5. SURPRISES

?Let sometimes your driver take you in a new way to meet the same intention!?

And remember thank your driver instead!?

Have clear communication with your driver about the intention where you want to be, and sometimes leave it to the driver to take you where he wants to be!

And you would be surprised, like again today I am surprised How we managed so many things and still could give our heart to this article for our viewers!?

Take control?softly?and?have a great ride with your driver, until I meet you next week!?

Thanks and regards

Ridhima Dua

New Code NLP Trainer