DO YOU TAKE OWNERSHIP OF EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE?
Bad things happen to us all. Good things happen to use all. When good things happen, it is easy to say we caused that to happen. When bad things happen, we usually push the cause outside of ourselves and say it happened because of some cause outside or ourselves. Thus, putting us powerless and at the effect of something or someone else.
This puts us powerless in life. We all have a different amount of what we accept cause for and a different amount we accept being effect of. The key is how do you put yourself at cause for everything and have the power to change? Rather than, putting yourself at effect of causes outside of you and render you powerless.
Not to say a lot of bad things don’t happen to us, such as…
· Losing a job.
· You have a bad employee.
· Business deal blows up.
· You make an adverse revenue decision.
· You have a health crisis.
· Getting a divorce.
· Death of a loved one.
· Financial ruin.
· A bad boss.
There is no way to tell if you really caused all these things, however when you take the power of being at cause of either the result you’re currently experiencing or putting yourself at cause to experience a different result you will have more of what you want.
The key is understanding your actions and decisions have consequences. How do you take the right actions and make the right decisions to have the intended consequences that you desire?
#1 – Understand the consequences, experiences and results that you desire.
#2 – Understand the actions and decisions that you need to make to have your desired results.
#3 – Calibrate did your actions and decisions create your desired results.
#4 – Be on the cause side of the equations that if you have accomplished the desired result you caused them and if you haven’t accomplished the desired result that you causes those too.
When take on the position of being 100% at cause for everything in your life you are empowered to know that your decisions and actions produce your desired results. If you want different results make different decisions and take different actions.
This thought process will help you…
“Be†a different and more empowered person.
“Do†better actions and make better decisions.
“Have†more of your desired results.
This one simple concept will help you feel in charge of any situation no matter how dyer the situation may be or may feel!