Which torch are you carrying?
Overseer Betty Williams
Overseer at The Burning Bush Evangelistic Ministries
O what a joy we experience when we determine that harboring resentment keeps us locked into the situation; creating a holding pattern for which to revisit as a precautionary measure. So each time we revisit the issue we lose focus on immediate progression of which the offense grandstands.
Once the torch of unforgiveness and resentfulness become the motherboard in an sustained unhealthy relationship, as an embrace they easily serve as principal rationale for which others are scrutinized. So by this consent, bonfires are lit where they are not warranted; resulting in the premature abortion of viable associations before they take root.
In situations where folks continue to blame, falsely accuse or judge, remember this may be reflect some character flaw of which we or they exhibit. By aligning our actions with Scripture, it is possible to regain the trust and agreeableness once shared for overall effectual. This is done to acquire peace with GOD and self, understanding that those who we think to have wronged us are also victims of Satan's devices.
So let them go (in love), as this is the nature of GOD; bringing restoration for your soul. And in the process of time, in observing your deflectitory light, they will also glorify The FATHER in Heaven (Matt.5:16). Remember, forgiving is an effectual response (the law of reciprocity), so set it in orbit. ~Blessings!