If you can’t take me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.
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If you can’t take me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.

It's a way of saying you can't take your favorite parts of a person and leave the rest you have to accept the whole person.

Good men don't want the worst qualities of a woman.

Good men deserve a good woman.

Good luck finding a decent minded one you can look at naked without revulsion, and will actually give anyone who's not a billionaire supermodel the time of day. Stay off the dating apps.

“Tired of the games" means she's got a high body count. Probably get banned for that, since it doesn't fit the feminist narrative. Lmfao! I don’t caret means that you need to accept their good and bad sides.

It means “accepting” them for exactly who they are.

It means that she is not perfect.

We all have things that come up in relationships. It means…accepting her, even when she is angry or upset with you, sick, unhappy, burdened, overworked, etc., and learning to compromise with one another.

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Agree to disagree. It means that she will make mistakes. It's all about accepting someone, no matter what their flaws or insecurities are. We ALL have them.

For long term relation, you want to live happily together and be compatible. So you have to be find with the issues of your partner as nobody is perfect.

You don’t want yourself to make too many effort for dating in the sense that if you lie on what you are by behaving differently, when you stop doing it, your partner discover a different person he doesn’t necessarily like.

That being said, I think that this happen in practice when a person isn’t too much invested in the relation and doesn’t want to please the other. Typically, the person think she is above you and that you are the one to make the effort (be it right or wrong). Or simply the person is unable to behave whatever the circumstances.

This is not a good indicator. You should likely let go a person that is too much like that and from which you don’t manage to get respect.

Either she is right she is more attractive on the market than you are and doesn’t want to make effort for you and it will never work or she is just a plain asshole and you have no reason to accept that.

If you don’t manage to get respect from others, this lower even more how much other consider you. So if anything work on improving yourself or find somebody else and dump her.

Seduction is not limited to 'Yes' or 'No'. You must read the attitude and the body language. And THEN ask.

If her attitude and her body language is clearly 'closed' you shouldn't bothering her.

If her attitude and body language is playfull and 'open', you should ask.

But if she doesn't answer, or answer 'no', the best attitude is to disangage/ or to 'freeze out'.

Lower your attention, be nice but prepare yourself to leave... and shows it clearly.

Why ?

That's the third rule. You should never be 'at the mercy' of a possible Partner.

It makes you a Pet.

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Playing a little is fine, having second thoughts is okay. But making you boil then having fun to tease you after a 'NO' is just fucked up.

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Thank you ….Or worse, expecting that the guy will force your barrier...

So, being to the point of leaving have a purpose. She is now as excited as you. If she wants to get laid, SHE have to reverse the situation and to ask you out.

She have to chase you. (Because, let's be clear, guys have to do 90% of the 'work' most of the time).

And if she doesn't...

Gives everybody a chance.

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Many girls could get laid 'at will'. A few minority of men could do that. If you want to get laid, if you want to stay in a happy Relationship, you should date, chase, try...A LOT of women.

Your dates doesn't own you sex. Perfect. And you don't own them anything until you were actually intimate.

So you should be ready to have a multiple of approach, date etc and at any 'NO' be ready to leave to the next and the Next.

Not only it prevent to get stuck in lousy sexless relationships, but it helps lots of girls to make their mind. And it relieves anxiety.

And it brings experience, too. You know, most people have TONS of lousy dates before getting good at it.

First, I will acknowledge that some women say “no” to sex they actually do want to have because they're afraid of looking “easy.” This is a phenomenon that occurs on planet Earth.

Want to add word or two?

However, this represents a tiny minority of the “noes” you'll hear from women.

The vast majority of “noes” from women mean “no.”

Some of them mean “no, not ever”; some of them mean, “no right now, but maybe later”; some of them mean, “no under these circumstances, but maybe if something about the circumstances change.”

Your comment ….? 

This is also not the behavior of someone you want to be having sex with. Only someone with zero sexual standards would think, “Hm,m yeah, I'd love to have sex with a woman who isn't comfortable admitting that she likes sex and relies on bizarre hints to communicate her wishes about weighty matters like consent!”

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On the other hand, someone with standards would think, “I'd like to have sex with a woman who speaks to me openly about her desires and doesn't make me play twisted guessing games.”

Please have standards in selecting your sexual partners. It makes sex better and keeps you and others safe.

There are no secret signs you can use to determine whether a woman's “no” actually means “please ignore my protests and proceed.”

Whatever signs you think you see, you could be wrong. You probably are wrong. And the consequences of being wrong are rape. I would hope that not raping people ranks pretty highly on your list of priorities.

If you always respect a “no,” you may miss a chance to have sex with someone who wanted to have sex with you but said otherwise.

 But as I said above, having sex with this sort of person is a bad idea anyway. More importantly having sex should not be more important to you than not raping people. The only reason you'd ignore a “no” is that you don't care whether or not you rape people.

Dayal Ram

Managing Director at DAYALIZE

4 年

Most importantly, life does not owe us anything. Neither the good nor the bad. Stop seeking qualities you don’t even master.? Stop cutting your partner’s wings so they can be a soothing cream for your own insecurities. ?Stop using “the best” as an escape from the fact that you are not the best, and not even close to it.

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