Are you being judged by the way you speak?

Are you being judged by the way you speak?

Consider this. Any time someone hears you speak, it forms an impression, and a potential for loss or gain.

Let me share a quotation from luminary speaker and former New South Wales premier Bob Carr.

“If your speech sounds under educated there are people, consciously or unconsciously, who are marking you down”.

One way that you may sound under educated is by using fillers (eg. ums, ahas). I view fillers as noise that interferes with the signal (ie. the words you speak).

At the 4:11 – 6:24 minute segment?of the below clip there are examples of business man and investor, Elon Musk using fillers, and practical ways to reduce the number of fillers in your speech. (If you have time the entire clip is worth watching).

HERE IS THE LINK FOR THE CLIP

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Implementation idea

(1) For the next seven days, at the start of each day audio record yourself for about 50 seconds describing what you’ll do that day.

(2) Immediately listen to the recording and note the use of any fillers.

(3) Reward yourself for listening to your voice. This could be as simple as a patting your forearm, or a fist pump, or saying ‘Well done”.

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John Groarke

Mentor to Consultants - creating relevant, distinctive, focused, sustainable & profitable consulting and services-centric enterprises since 2001 | Mentor to Early-Stage Start-Ups - shaping prosperous futures since 2006

7 个月

A post for all Michael Kelly ... one of your best!

Janette Parr Consulting

Writer and Editor; Specialist in Human Skills and Better Communication

7 个月

I've used this recording exercise (more times than I care to admit) with students and the occasional client. Nothing makes the point so well as hearing it for themselves. As well as 'fillers' and .... no, I won't go into the list... there is another common speech problem: 'vocal fry', which starts as copycat behaviour and becomes a habit. Fairly or unfairly, it signals a lack of education and sounds unprofessional. The good news... it's fixable!

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