Yes, They ARE Judging You
Bianca Thomas, LMHC
??Licensed Mental Health Counselor ??Director of Evolve Ventures Therapy ??Speaker
Here’s the thing; no matter what you do, no matter how good your intentions or how valid your reasons, others will not like you, will judge you or criticize you.
That’s not the problem; the problem is how do you deal with that?
We live in a world where the worst possible thing is to not be liked, which stems from our need to belong.
But regardless of what you do there will always be people who can’t and won’t understand you.
The goal, then, is to surround yourself with the ones who do. There are people in this world who DO understand, who see you as you are and for who you are, who support your mission and dreams and will even help you get there.
The world is full of critics, and that’s okay, but you can’t stop going because a few won’t approve, because then you’re depriving the ones who will.