X Eye-Opening Realizations That Came with Growing Up ??

Revisit your younger self in the past ??

How were you?

→ Lonely

→ Insecure

→ Unhappy

→ Hopeless

→ Confused

→ Neglectful

→ Disappointed

→ Under-confident

Have you ever thought why you were like this?

it's because you;

? never faced fears

? Ran from changes

? held onto grudges

? avoided challenges

? never asked for help

? failed to set boundaries

? dwelled on past mistakes

? never took time for self-care

? stayed in your comfort zone

? avoided difficult conversations

? were never happy about your life

? wanted to achieve things so quick

? never expressed your true feelings

? refused to let go of toxic relationships

? lived in constant comparison to others

And the list continues.

If you're still → Unhappy

The main reasons are up there ↑

When growing up miles away from my home, I realized;

? Life's hard without parents

? Struggles are never gonna end

? People are gonna leave one day

? No one is gonna stand up for you

? You'll meet new people every quarter

And these were some of the main things that made me shift my mindset

The last 2 years have been a rollercoaster;

And after things that happened, I finally realized;

? Changes are beautiful

? Struggles will help you grow

? Only I can stand up for myself

? Your choices shape your destiny

? Baby steps lead to big achievements

? Meeting new people bring knowledge

? Loving yourself is the top-most priority

? Setting boundaries is an act of self-respect

? Forgiving others is a gift you give to yourself

? Doing things you love will bring you happiness

? No one's gonna love you as much as parents do

? Your journey is unique—don't compare it to others

? A goal is a good thing, but the progress is important

? Finding joy in the little things makes life extraordinary

? Any person you meet is a lesson waiting to be learned

? Expectations are heavy; let them go and find freedom

and the list continues..

If you're still stuck at that phase and want to come out, you gotta make that decision!

But if you don't take it, it's your loss. You'll be stuck there forever.

?? God never helps the one who's always complaining! Trust Me!

?? You're the only one to help yourself out here.

?? So stop complaining like an idiot and start working!

Take that tough decision!

?? Before you work for others, start working on yourself.

Discomfort = Growth

Changes = Growth

Self Love = Growth

Acceptance = Growth

Struggles = Growth

Growth = Happiness

Growth = Peace

Growth = Confidence

Growth = Freedom

So, are you willing to give it all for growth? Here's the lowdown on how to start ↓

Starting something is the best step you'll ever take for the future you, and you'll be proud of yourself one day, just like me :)

So start, don't be afraid; you can do it ??