Wrong ones disappear and the best ones remain onboard as the time goes by

From my over 60 years of experience I can safely declare that I have got one trick which had helped me find the solution to my problems every time I am in a mess and that is “To observe things and people all the time". Find out the celebrities, politician, sports persons, artist, etc. whose stories are published and admired all around the world. They are celebrated because they are so successful ,but they are widely respected because of their ability to win in extremely difficult situation when everything go wrong.

Take for Example Nelson Mandela he was imprisoned for his battle against racism and finally he became the President of South Africa even after being in prison for 25 years, Oprah Winfrey became a self made billionaire and now run Oprah Winfrey network(OWN) under her name even when she faced child abuse at a very tender age, had no support from parents and experienced extremely difficult childhood. Also our own Narendra Modi the current Prime Minister of India is a son of tea vendor. There stories are just amalgamation of how much life can start in difficult circumstances for many people who come up in their life fighting against all odds.

Lets look around our life now. Is their something going wrong in the life of any of your family member? How about your mother or father? Your best friend, your colleague, your neighbour, your maid, driver, anybody or everybody around you. Just look at their life and observe what is wrong. I am sure you you can find at least 10 such wrong things about each individual if you know them closely enough. However some of them will choose to be happy and still enjoying life while some are depressed because of it.

Therefore,the point here is, problem is there in everybody's life, however our reaction and action on them define our future. They structure our life by the way we choose to work on them. Problems are as necessary as food in our life. You need them to have a momentum. However if you are experiencing mountainous difficulties then choose this popular trivia:Poison cut poison, similarly pain cuts pain. Just observe people who were in similar situation like you and had come successfully out of it. I promise you every time you are in need this will get you an answer.

Time teaches us many things in life and is always with us accompanying us showing different shades of life. We all face a multitude of problems in life. Be it financial, personal or even related to our careers. And the kind of problems we face depends on our age and experience. A student faces academic issues, issues related to his stream, his job prospects or even a simple decision related to his career. A middle aged man faces a different set of problems - his career, his family's security, his son's future planning - everything that rides on him, seems to be at stake.

However, there is one thing common to all these. No matter what situation we face, only we can turn the tables, only we can change the detrimental predicament into a productive one. The real problem lies in our acceptance of that situation as a problem. After all, every dark cloud has a silver lining. We just need to find that silver lining. Being a student, I have faced the issues most students face. If you face a tough situation as a student - perhaps you're being unable to crack an exam, or perhaps you're being unable to secure a job or anything of this sort - you need to realise that when one option closes, two more open up. This is absolutely true.

When things seem to be going down, even if you're a middle aged person facing immense financial issues, again, you need to think of your family before you. People have this inherent tendency of giving up hope and neglecting their families. Don't do that. Your family is your life. Treasure them. Protect them. You need to be calm and collected and take decisions wisely, be it financial decisions or decisions related to your children's future. Support your family in whatever way you can, and let your children do the rest for you. Never lose hope. Struggle to survive.

If you're financially stable but mentally afflicted owing to personal reasons, then take a good vacation. Clear your mind. Remove the garbage from your psyche. See the world. Enjoy! These are simply tools to keep you mentally stable. But if you really wish to invert the decaying curve of your life, struggle and perseverance are your only tools. Hope will guide you all the way. Cheers!