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Before I went to sleep last night, I heard the terrible news of a shooting in a tram in Utrecht, a popular student city in the heart of the Netherlands. Three people died and five were wounded, some seriously. The attacker has been apprehended, but police is still speculating about the motive. It’s yet another senseless attack on humanity, yet another bitter pill to swallow. And although this one hits closer to home, my immediate response was not inspired by an internal emotional appeal to national identity. My gut feeling upon learning about the incident was that, sadly and startlingly, violence is part of life, whether you live in a conflict area or in one of the world’s wealthiest and safest countries.

As the events of the shooting were unfolding in the Netherlands, tropical depression “Chedeng” was moving slowly but surely towards Mindanao—in hindsight a fitting backdrop to the tragic incident in Utrecht. As I’m writing this, rain is pouring down heavy in Davao and other parts of the island, the side-effect of a low pressure area which Chedeng turned into when it made landfall earlier this morning. It’s been very dry in the past few months, so the water is welcome, but lots of rain after a long dry spell can also mean landslides.

More profound differences

Waiting out the rainfall, I find myself once again preparing for a visit to friends and family in the Netherlands. I always feel a bit anxious the days before the trip. The anticipation of being back home, at the same time the realization it’s temporary—it all creates a feeling of mild uneasiness.

But of course Sophie and I are thrilled to again be with the people we care about most. And, let’s be honest, to ‘escape’ for a while the minor inconveniences of living abroad. To be clear, getting to experience these differences is enriching. Not because it shows you how much better life is in the ‘West.’ No, it’s other, more profound stuff. Like how life is what you make it. How happiness means different things to different people. How the state of (in)equality alters the fabric of a society. It’s these lessons I will carry with me when we leave the Philippines.

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